Is it weird to ask a girl for her number over Facebook?

[Anonymous]

So I've been talking to this girl on Facebook for about a week or so now. I was wondering if it would be weird if I asked her for her number over Facebook.

[FFStaylor]

No, I've gotten plenty of numbers off of Facebook, but the only thing was I had met them or something before hand. Nowadays it's easy to get a girl's number, it's the part after you get it that's hard. Most of the time girls only think something is weird when you make it weird. Just don't make a big deal about it, especially if she says no. She might change her mind later.

[ohmygollygarsh]

Is this girl someone you know in real life, as well? I know from experience that it's so much easier to be open with someone online than it is to be with someone face-to-face. I think you should meet this person to hang out in real life if possible before you ask for their number, just to see if you have any chemistry to begin with before you waste your time.

[Asker]

Yeah I had went to High school with her, we had never really talked much before. She is around 100 or so miles away atm, I would guess

[ohmygollygarsh]

Well, that would be OK. At least you've seen her enough to know that she really is the person that you think she is and that you find her physically attractive. The worst thing in the world is to like someone mentally to realize that you find them physically repulsive. So go for it!

[Seloy]

From my experience , if a guy wants to ask a girl for her number over the internet , he`ll say something like , ''i have to go , but if it`s okay with you , could I get your number so we can talk or text ?''

& that`s not weird at all , in fact , it`s more flattering than anything , knowing that he wants to talk to you more . Good Luck !

[Semicolon]

No, it wouldn't be weird. If you live 100 miles away, how else are you going to ask her for it? However, I'd ask her first if she'd like to talk on the phone, rather than just asking for her phone number straight out. That way, if she isn't interested, it will be less likely to be awkward.

[CosmoGal]

If she is talking to you on Facebook, she might be okay with you asking for her number. It never hurts to ask.

[jayyy]

no asking for a number isn't weird but asking her out online would be though

[Anonymous]

no, you've been talking for a while, seems the right timing