Do you like introverted guys?

[Anonymous]

and introverted doesn't mean they're shy, they're just quiet. an introverted guy can even be someone who is thought of as popular and good looking but they aren't the loud ones who are always talking. what do you think about hem?

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+1 y

by the way as you can probably tell I am an introverted guy, I am talkative with my friends but in other situations I'm usually not.


i ask because I find myself liking extroverted girls a lot but I don't know if they really dislike that

[cazza3]

Love em. I'm what you'd call extrovert, most of my friends are the same but when it comes to any guy I'm interested in he is always introvert. What can I say there's something about a guy that can sit back and just listen to a conversation or can sit in silence with you and not feel the need to fill the silence. Because I'm outgoing people tend to think I'm happy happy all the time and seem to expect it but most introvert guys/guys seem to just take me as I am. I think people confuse introvert with shy and there is a big difference. Introvert guys in my experience don't like to be the centre of attention but not because of any confidence issue, they're just not interested

[Asker]

you're exactly right about everything you wrote...i love girls like you. some people think my introvertedness is me being arrogant or shy but its not! I'm just not interested

girls like you though can bring me out of my shell (which is a good thing because it means I'm interested) and its just nice having a happy uplifting girl there

[cazza3]

Thank you - made my day. Bu- it took me a few years to figure out guys like you. I have been guilty in the past of thinking that a guy was arrogant when in fact he was just quiet bordering on shy. It can be very hard for a girl to figure out if you're interested or not because introvert guys are (more often than not) nice guys, so we wonder is he interested or just being nice

[toulouse]

yes hot :) really I tend to be really attracted to introverts- provided they are not introverts because they are assholes ^^

but yea, its nice because you eel like they are really focused and don't need to be on all the time, plus I'm really energetic and its good having an anchor. also I like to be really calm sometimes, just meditate with my thoughts. so its god if they don't mind not talking sometimes.

:-)

[vballlover]

I do myself, maybe because I am also introverted. But I tend to like guys that aren't always talking and socializing... they seem to be the ones that think they're all that and a bag of chips. But that's just me.

[Brando]

Us introverts make up roughly 25% percent of the world. We are rarer than extroverts, so expect to be misunderstood and ignored more often than not. You won't live the life that the party animal does, so if that is glorifying to you then you must either work to achieve that or be happy with yourself. Depending on your type of introversion, you may or may not be secure in yourself. Being secure in yourself, while still being introverted, tends to be a good combo to work with.

[Anonymous]

Yep I do.

I don't like people who tell all of their secrets to others.

[Anonymous]

Girls don't like boys they like cars and money...