I'm 18, a senior in high school and never had a boyfriend. Is that weird?

[omargosh]

i've only like "talk talked" to one guy and nothing happened with us. I've kissed but never BEEN kissed.. so if someone told you they hadn't had a boyfriend would you think they were weird?

[HenryK]

I think kids at that age really give in to peer pressure. Kids looking down at others for being different.

Like others say, don't worry about it. What's the hurry? Enjoy your life and have fun. You're acting like its the end of the world, when its not. Don't let this bug you. There is so much time left for you to meet wonderful people.

Just be yourself. Be the best you can be every single day. Don't feel like you're being looked down at, because nobody can look down on anyone. Afterall, we are all the same. We will live, and we will die. No one is any different.

Be confident in yourself, and just have fun.

If you're worried that maybe you're doing something wrong with guys, start reading up on how to please men. Figure out the general things men want, and that will open a new world for you.

So to answer your question: No, I don't think it's weird. In fact the less guys youve been with, the better it is in my book :)

take care! :D

[ebrady5]

NO, this is not weird. Its all relative, there are people who don't have their first kiss until college or later, kids who lose their virginity when they are 8 years old, people who go their entire lives without any kind of romantic encounter whatsoever. I think its kinda funny when people have these plans built about when its normal to have had your first kiss, dates, sex, marriage, all that. I call them program men/women. Instead of playing it by ear, sometimes these program people make hasty decisions in terms of their partners because they believe they NEED to get married by 23 or have kids by 25 or whatever. I think its better to enjoy your life, let things happen naturally, don't try to force anything to happen and you will be much happier in the end.

[samann1988]

im 22 and only just starting to have a relationship. trust me they respect you so much more so don't worry I always worried but theirs no point just find the right guy

[cjblondi08]

its not weird at all.dont rush it though girly a lot of guys are trouble lol

[Snowflake]

I don't think it's weird at all! I didn't have my first boyfriend till 21

[BenBenondatrack]

you just might be scared and that's ok..everybody is not the same and who said there is a time limit on dating? wait till you really like somebody and go for it. don't be scared to talk to or approach guys either..but go for quality..i wouldn't worry about numbers cause you only have 1 true love in the end anyway and all the others won't matter

[VelvetEars]

Not in the slightest, I didn't have my first proper girlfriend till I was 21, and if it's any consolation, most young guys are very immature and are only really after one thing and there's plenty of time yet to find guys!

[jester7979]

Yes, it's very weird not to have a boyfriend at 18.

Come on, now. That's nothing. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 24 -- and that ended quickly.

[chickinboots]

your time will come, don't worry, just keep talking to those boys and before you know it you'll be in a relationship :)

[mcb2010]

no...stay innocent as long as you can sweety most girls would kill to be in your shoes

[KERMlT]

You are very beautiful. I'm a bit surprised you have never had a boyfriend.

[faraday]

Quality is more important than quantity. Some dishes just need more time to prepare ;)

[Alextricity]

I'm one of those people. I'm 19 and I've never kissed either. Don't feel too bad.

[snackeyg]

Not really. I'm 21 and I have no experience with girls. Anything you name I haven't done it.

[Anonymous]

No not really. There are a few people that just don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend in high school

[michelleboycee]

It's not so weird. I haven't had a relationship that lasted longer than four months.. and I've never done anything but kissed a guy. I'm also 18

[mocha59846]

Don't worry. Just don't become a slut and people will love you. I had a cousin like you and she got pregnant to up her popularity. It didn't work

[xxAdrianna]

It's not weird at all. Don't worry about it :)