I'm 15 And I've never had a boyfriend or gone out with anyone, is that weird?

[abby2001]

is it weird that I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me? Would you go out with me?

[keepsmiling333]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, I can promise you that. You are still young and you have plenty of time to find someone, there is someone out there for all of us. The right guy will come along one day and then you'll realise why nobody else ever did, and you'll be happy. For us girls, it is so hard to feel good about ourselves when we don't have someone there paying us attention, we almost feel like we have something wrong with us and the truth is, that is not the case at all. You just haven't found the right guy yet. And you never know, someone could be looking at you and thinking you're the nicest girl they've ever seen but too scared to say something. Guys are just as worried as girls in situations like this one. But please don't be thinking there is anything wrong with you because I promise you there isn't. You never know what tomorrow will bring and when the right guy comes along, you'll be thankful for him!
Keep Smiling, Lovely!

[abby2001]

thank you so so much! you've made my day! you're amazing!!

[keepsmiling333]

You are more than welcome, and I am so glad this small bit of advice helped you! Keep Smiling :)

[dewatergirl]

Nope it's not weird at all. You're a little too young to have a real go out on dates all of the time boyfriend. If you get one around now and then compare it to when you're around 18-20, you will notice a big difference in the level of just having someone you hang out with at school, sit next to at lunch, make out and see the occasional movie with v. s. someone you go out with all of the time, you practically live at their house, they're your best frined... etc. Just my experience. It could be way different for you though.

[abby2001]

that's great advice thanks!

[DinaM]

Nothing weird at all. When I was your age I'd never had a boyfriend either.

[abby2001]

that makes me feel better haha :)

[MackFreeze]

No it's not weird! Dating doesn't matter that young! Seriously get this thought out of your mind! Dating doesn't matter for years! Wait until you want a real relationship, not sex! Don't rush into relationships!

Your fine! Take it slow! Build yourself up! Make friends, play sports, do good in school, spend time with family. Dating is a waste of time at 15.

[Levin]

Wait, there are people born in 2001 now? =/

I wouldn't date you, because I'd end up in prison. But if I was a 15 year old boy, I would.

[abby2001]

haha thanks! but I don't understand what you mean? of course there are people born in 2001, including me. am I not a person because I was born in 01? :D

[Levin]

Hmm, good point. Come to think of it, you probably are a person :P

Did you know that there are people who were born in 1985?

[abby2001]

haha! yes of course aha :)

[RJGraveyTrain]

You're barely a preteen. Relax.

[abby2001]

barely a preteen? I'm well into my teenage years.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Argue age all you want but a year ago you were still in grade school. You're still a kid. Relationships at your age are totally useless more often than not. Worry about your studies.

[Halucinator]

@abby2001
no one can beat RJ when it comes to arguement😂😂

[abby2001]

@Halucinator i'm not arguing.

[Halucinator]

I know that
I was just counting her talents😂😂

[abby2001]

@Halucinator haha

[karmaisaboomerang]

There is nothing wrong with that. Don't try to rush into it, either. The right guy will show up eventually.

[abby2001]

Thank you :)

[Pseudonymous]

Yes and no. My first kiss was with my friend that I wasn't interested in till later. I never relied I was dating untill I look back on it. But no, it is not really.

[MeGo99]

It's normal because you're still young don't worry and enjoy

[abby2001]

thank you :)

[ROCKS128]

it's totally normal, in my country guys & girls are single till 21+!
nothing wrong with u (I think)!
yes I would go out with I, if I was there.

[itsOK2BasSlut]

your hot Abby. Most guys are intimated by your sexyness.

[abby2001]

wow, thanks :D

[itsOK2BasSlut]

your very welcome

[Anonymous]

Nothing is weird in it. I am 19 and still not dated a single girl. Nothing is wrong with you. I am not pedo so my answer is nope.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with that! You're young, boys are too much hassle at that age xx

[darknhandsome]

it's not bad at all. I never had a girlfriend until I was 19 plus we were 4 states away. judging by your picture you are extremely dateable. I would love to take you on a date.

[abby2001]

thanks so much! :D

[darknhandsome]

no problem dear

[volkspele00]

u look perfect but i judge character not looks if i know u better and ur my kind of girl then yes i would go out with u but at the moment I'll say that i will

[dan4tlc]

Actually, the common age for this with most girls is 15 1/2 unless we are talking sheltered and shy. So I would get ready if I were you and choose wisely

[abby2001]

get ready?

[dan4tlc]

Get ready to enter the world of relationship in a smart way

[abby2001]

ohh haha, I'm not even sure if I know how to get ready :D

[dan4tlc]

The unsureness is what makes us human. It is good to strike a balance between caution and risk. People often try and coerce you and it can be real bad. I suggest you pay attention to what people who seem to have it right are doing. An excellent way to prepare

[abby2001]

thanks for your advice :)

[JunkIntr0vert]

No, nothing wrong with that. I'm 18 - soon will be 19 - and I've never had boyfriend and never have dated anyone.

[Halucinator]

I'm also 15. Never went to date, never had a girlfriend
*high five*
Is it bad?😂😂

[abby2001]

haha, we're okay I think :D :D

[Halucinator]

yup! you got it right😊

[abby2001]

haha :D :D

[Halucinator]

by the way are you free this weekend?😂😂😂😛

[abby2001]

haha, well yeah I actually am, why?

[Halucinator]

Wanna go out on a date?😂😛

[abby2001]

haha, do you live in the UK though?

[Halucinator]

nope was jk😜

[abby2001]

:D haha

[Rojaasu]

no nothing's wrong with that can't say if I would date you because I don't know you

[jbeelzebub]

that's not weird at all. it might start getting weird in your 20s

[jbeelzebub]

and yes of course if I wasn't too old for you

[abby2001]

haha, thanks though :)

[QueenofCups]

No, that's not weird at all.

[MaiaPapayaaa]

That's not weird at all.

[Halucinator]

hey! New ID?
Welcome back

[MaiaPapayaaa]

Thanks! Yea I came back. lol

[johnar99]

not at all just respect yourself and it will come x

[BayareaSunrise]

no you are 15 you are barely a human at that age, just wait until you are no longer a gremlin

[Wolframium]

No.
Why should be? Don't…rush it.