I have never dealt with the Goths, and i don't know much about them.
What do you think about the Goths?
I have never dealt with the Goths, and i don't know much about them.
"Are they all the same when they treat people?" Nobody's ever the same in anything, but I can only share my own experience.
In high school, I befriended a goth girl on my bus. She was one of the very few (less than a handful of) people that I ever hung out with outside of school.
She was kinky as hell; one of her friends (while mad at her) ratted her out to the school for the contents of her porn blog, and she got in trouble.
We made lots of dirty jokes on the bus together, which I personally call "a good sense of humor". Some people disagree, though; one guy on the bus said he was "uncomfortable" overhearing it, so that's basically what ended us talking.
She was nice, as were the other goth people I've interacted with (but not befriended).
As for whether goths "accept to treat with other people or they just treat with their own kind", she befriended me & I had (and still have) the "girl next-door" look, so that speaks for itself. She did hang out with more goth people during the schoolday, though...
I used to be more gothic/punk when I was 12. Now I branch between the looks style wise, but I I wouldn't call myself gothic. I like the stuff in the images below.
I don't mind everyday goths though, it's an acquired taste. For some it's a phase, others a lifestyle.
I got into the Industrial/EBM ("Rivethead") scene 'round about 1991 and it just kinda stuck for the subsequent 28 years. Goths and Rivets and others often show up at the same places at the same times; there's a high level of cross pollination between the subcultures. So I've been exposed to goths for a long time. In fact, I've dated non-goths but everybody I've been in a serious relationship with has been either a goth or a razor (a female rivethead), including my wife.
My general impression about them (us) is that they (we) are normal people with non-normal interests, attire and artistic tastes. Most of them (us) are good, kind and friendly people. Some of them (us) aren't. Just like everybody else.
That said, there is a lot of misconception about the subculture among Normies, and sometimes they (we) get tired of it. That and the fact that a lot of normal guys seem to have fetishized goth girls. So some of them (us) are skeptical of people who aren't in the scene, so to speak.
I think Goth chicks *can* be super hot. My current perception is that they're generally good people.
But no. I grew up with more the Punks, hoods, and metalheads. And all different kinds, really. Never met a Goth person, though, strangely enough. I hung out with a LOT of people, too.
I'm very fond of AdoraBatBrat on Youtube, though. She's like fucking 45 years old or something. I'm pretty sure she's a real vampire (not rly), because she looks like she doesn't age at all.
Random vid:
Also I had an infatuation with Cyber Goths for awhile. Talk about accessories.
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They were goth at my school and I was friends with some but mostly I just saw them around school since they were all in their senior years. They were some in middle school too when I was in high school.
I like their style and they're usually nice I would say except some can be quite rude (they consider being sarcastic as being cool, etc... ) but they're usually good to be around unless if you're the popular slutty or show off rich people then they would be rude to you (the one I know where like that at least).
They're like any others people except they like to criticize the popular people a lot (and they're only cool and accepting if you aren't the popular type since they don't like them).
I worked with one, and she became my friend. She was covered in tatts and piercings.
Our immediate boss hated her, but the powers above her, looked past her appearance, and now she has a very lucrative job in the government. She's by far one of the smartest people I've ever met. She's also one of the sweetest and kindest humans on the planet. I never once asked about her odd appearance, because I never gave a shit.
Your boss must be one of the annoying religious nuts who likes to judge people
I just don’t understand the obsession with death and darkness and occult symbols. I don’t know why you would want to embody and embrace things that seem so depressing. So I don’t generally think about goths, ever, but it’s just a total lack of understanding on my part so I can’t really have a valid opinion.
When i was a bit younger i went through a goth phase. Im just simply a metalhead these days lol. I've known a few goths, they are just as normal as anyone really. It all depends on the individual. Some are sweet, some are bad, etc. Some religious, some not. They can be accepting of other people
I like goths, they just people, usually more up for doing different than conventional things too. Its like metal heads, i know guys who have tats and piercings and look like they could smash your face in with there little finger... but they the nicest people you will ever meet.
I get along with several types who are similar. So I probably wouldn’t have much issue with it. I think it’s like with anyone - I’d get along with many, but not all.
I have friends who are into goth stuff, I’m close friends with some “hippie/goth/punk types.” They usually for more of a hipster/artsy appearance, than Goth, but most used to be, then switched the style.
I’m a huge fan of the the Vikings. Norse metal bands are the shit!!! 😂
Sorry had to say that. But yeah in all seriousness. I don’t mind Goth people. As long as they aren’t actively hurting anyone they aren’t an issue in my book. They can dress and look however they want, just like anyone else. Can’t say I’ve ever had a goth friend, but only because I’ve never had the opportunity to get to know anyone who was goth well enough to befriend them. But ultimately they’re just people like you and me.
I've always liked every goth I've ever met, but my buddy had a goth girlfriend and she ended up stealing all his dragon figurines that he had been painting, they were actually quite valuable and she ended up selling them all for money to buy coke.
So watch out, man. Just saying.
I have meet a few Goths in my time.
Often surprisingly you'll find they're arty. As in Poetry and music. It's rather refreshing but can come across a bit mundane.
I've never slept with a goth as I'm more into the dark skinned folk. But a dark skinned goth would be a huge turn on for me.
As for their taste in music. I mean Joy Division's Love will tear us apart has a great intro but the vocals are abit meh. The only Cure song I like is Love Cats... Because I love cats.
I'm surprised goths are still a thing.
What do I think of them? I really don't. They can do whatever they want, it's their lives, but I doubt they'll be working at the NSA or Attorney Generals office anytime soon because sad to say but, the world does judge you by the way you look.
Iv never meet one since most people where I'm at don't dress gothic but iv seen one walking down the street once and a few at Hott Topic also when it comes to them being good people it's the same for non Goths I'm pretty shore most might be good people while there are others that arnt also from the many Goths iv seen on the internet and just the mear fact there still human I would ya they still have a sense of humor.
My girlfriend is goth and doesn't go around like those weirdos in your pics. That picture is like a cosplay of the goth kids from South Park. She's far more low key than that, and it isn't a big lifestyle thing or anything. She likes the style of dress and the music associated with goth stuff mostly. Apparently in highschool she was more of an Edge Lord than now, but it's not really something I think about with her. Sounds to me like you're envisioning a caricature more than reality.
They scare the absolute fucking shit out of me. Fucking devils children
There were a bunch who rode my bus in high school, I ended up walking home 12 miles, because I absolutely refused to get on the bus with those people because I thought they were gonna kill me. Especially since it was known that they practiced Satanism.
I think they are okay but I don’t associate with them or wouldn’t want to be like them. It seems like a depressing lifestyle ( this is coming from someone who is an outsider though, so what do I know).
Goths are awesome :-). I used to be one in college.
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Update: depends on the goth
Seriously?
@ZeussLightningBolt seriously. Although I didn’t wear a lot of makeup. Just blood red lipstick and very dark hair. My skin was naturally pale anyway.
I had s boyfriend who was into that.
I can't picture you as a goth
@ZeussLightningBolt very long time ago. I’m much too preppie to pass for a goth for long lol.
YES! ;)
@Nadim171 it was a brief phase. I did it because I was very unhappy at the time and also because I wanted to please the guy I was dating. But some of the lyrics in goth songs are quite beautiful.
I undressed why you did it. I used to be like that too. It's not worth it. Just be yourself and find someone who likes you for you.
I agree. Some Gothic Rock bands are cool, like Nightwish and Sisters of Mercy.
@ZeussLightningBolt thank you. I totally agree.
And yeah. Sisters of Mercy and Bauhaus are awesome.
Haven't heard Bauhaus, but I'll check them out
@ZeussLightningBolt great band. Peter Murphy was the lead singer.
I don't know who that is
@ZeussLightningBolt he basically invented goth 10 years before Marilyn Manson and Spooky Kids
Not my cup of tea, but it's kind of like a cross between Stooges and The Cure, which are two bands that I like.
@ZeussLightningBolt I like both those bands.
I know
We have the same taste in music.
You should check out D. A. D. They're not gothic, but you'll probably like them.
@ZeussLightningBolt I will
I am goth and yeah and no lol. It's all depends please don't judge one for all tho. There was on here she was okay but became annoying and troll. But i ain't like that so.
I've met a few being alternative myself, and they're just normal people. Some are sweet, others aren't. Not weird freaks or psychopaths
I've had one or teo friends as such, they're pretty irresponsible and don't take many things seriously, they negatively don't give a fuck about life which leads to disasters in their lives which make them even more irresponsible and careless.
The goth people I've met back in high school were actually pretty smart and got their work done.
To me their just like any other person except they wear a lot of black.
They're okay but I wish they'd stop flying in through my window in the middle of the night and scaring the shit out of me
oh my bad i thought u said moths
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