I dont really care now tbh. When I was younger I used to think men that shouldn't cry. But now , as long as it's not over trivial stuff I don't care.
When you hear about the suicides and the issues males have, I don't have a problem with it. They can do what they want if it helps them get through those issues.
I used to be one of the asses that refused to cry which led to hiding all emotion. Now I say fuck that. If I'm mad you will hear me. If I'm happy you will hear me and if I'm sad you might have to find me but I'm probably crying and after that you will hear me. My life has gotten loads better after I stopped acting like a damned robot.
I was like that until my wife and unborn son passed away. Now I am like you to a point. I have been a Paul bearer for 3 of my aunts and uncles because I can't cry much anymore. Being emotionless kinda sucks. I have gotten a back pay from disability and I was happy but no smile crossed my face. This was not small change but big money. If I am upset with you. You will hear about it. If I am pissed at you. I will stare a hole through your head starting with your eyes but I am quite. If I am in an argument with you and I go quiet. I am restraining my self from unleashing a lifetime of hurt and anger on you and thinking about the best way to deal with you. Instant silence from me is not a good thing. Running away from me might be. I have yet to break on some one. God help them when I do.
Exactly the same as when a woman does. When it's someone I know I do my best to comfort them. If it's a stranger my shyness sadly takes over and I'm not really able to react 😅 so yea feeling kind of uncomfortable.
I don't judge people if they cry in public, but I feel uncomfortable because I don't know what to do. Should I offer words? Comfort them somehow? Leave them alone?
There's no sense in crying, especially in front of someone you love. Personally, I don't feel the need of wasting tears with any of the women I currently have in my life.
I'd just back off and give him his space. Ain't anything wrong with crying but I think that's something best done in private if it can be helped. I mean that for women too.
I also start crying with them haha When a man cries, he is filled with so much powerful emotion that he can't help but cry. Some men cry inside but do not cry outside and it creates problems..
Yeah... that place and time is when you're alone. Men don't get comfort. If a woman sees you cry, or that you've been crying, it's over. She will see you as weak and move on
Geez, I'm rubbish when anyone crys in front of me, but when it's a man I'm even worse... unless it's a direct reaction to my football team losing in the playoffs... and then I'm crying with that Mofo! And I'm crying some more! lol
What if your husband just learn through a relative that yours and his daughter just committed suicide and you happen to be there cleaning the house? Sometimes men can't contain their tears.
@NorthwestRider I don't like dealing with catty guys who name call don't name call and your comments will stay. I don't call you names very simple stuff
I agree it does not even have to be that extreme for men to feel save with their feelings. We need to break down things that are bad for society, like allowing men to treat women like toys or men being called out for being human. sorry if I went on for too long
It makes me sad because men don’t cry a lot in public and I’m already empathetic but when it comes to men crying it’s always over something really bad and I try to comfort them best I can
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I dont really care now tbh. When I was younger I used to think men that shouldn't cry. But now , as long as it's not over trivial stuff I don't care.
When you hear about the suicides and the issues males have, I don't have a problem with it. They can do what they want if it helps them get through those issues.
Unless its something serious then I don't want to see your cry baby self in front of me.
😂😂😂😂
I've been a bouncer aka professional tough guy, and I still cry when sad shit happens. Crying is a sign of having a heart not a weakness.
That said I'm not going to cry just because life isn't always going my way. Takes something profoundly aweful.
I didn't cry when I got my leg twisted into a pretzel, but when my cat I'd had for 20 years needed to be put down that shit got me right in the feels.
I used to be one of the asses that refused to cry which led to hiding all emotion. Now I say fuck that. If I'm mad you will hear me. If I'm happy you will hear me and if I'm sad you might have to find me but I'm probably crying and after that you will hear me. My life has gotten loads better after I stopped acting like a damned robot.
I was like that until my wife and unborn son passed away. Now I am like you to a point. I have been a Paul bearer for 3 of my aunts and uncles because I can't cry much anymore. Being emotionless kinda sucks. I have gotten a back pay from disability and I was happy but no smile crossed my face. This was not small change but big money. If I am upset with you. You will hear about it. If I am pissed at you. I will stare a hole through your head starting with your eyes but I am quite. If I am in an argument with you and I go quiet. I am restraining my self from unleashing a lifetime of hurt and anger on you and thinking about the best way to deal with you. Instant silence from me is not a good thing. Running away from me might be. I have yet to break on some one. God help them when I do.
Not you personally.. by the way
guys have cried in front of me and i usually feel empathy because i cry too unless they are angrily crying and yelling at me because they hate me
Exactly the same as when a woman does. When it's someone I know I do my best to comfort them. If it's a stranger my shyness sadly takes over and I'm not really able to react 😅 so yea feeling kind of uncomfortable.
I don't judge people if they cry in public, but I feel uncomfortable because I don't know what to do. Should I offer words? Comfort them somehow? Leave them alone?
I usually offer crying people tea and some Kleenex
There's no sense in crying, especially in front of someone you love.
Personally, I don't feel the need of wasting tears with any of the women I currently have in my life.
Sorry love
It makes me uncomfortable if anyone is crying in front of me.
I'd just back off and give him his space. Ain't anything wrong with crying but I think that's something best done in private if it can be helped. I mean that for women too.
I also start crying with them haha When a man cries, he is filled with so much powerful emotion that he can't help but cry. Some men cry inside but do not cry outside and it creates problems..
Yeah... that place and time is when you're alone. Men don't get comfort. If a woman sees you cry, or that you've been crying, it's over. She will see you as weak and move on
I'd comfort a guy but I have no idea how to.
This is why we say "yeah, right" when women claim emotional support is one of the reasons we need them.
Totally depends on who the guy is to me and why he is crying.
Geez, I'm rubbish when anyone crys in front of me, but when it's a man I'm even worse... unless it's a direct reaction to my football team losing in the playoffs... and then I'm crying with that Mofo! And I'm crying some more! lol
Lol...
What if your husband just learn through a relative that yours and his daughter just committed suicide and you happen to be there cleaning the house? Sometimes men can't contain their tears.
When you are emotionally hurt, you should cry.
I agree but not all around the town either
@NorthwestRider sure now leave this bitch alone
Pretend your a man have some self control
You are such a snowflake that you deleted my opinion lol
@NorthwestRider I don't like dealing with catty guys who name call don't name call and your comments will stay. I don't call you names very simple stuff
I agree it does not even have to be that extreme for men to feel save with their feelings. We need to break down things that are bad for society, like allowing men to treat women like toys or men being called out for being human. sorry if I went on for too long
@likelyOK no you're great. I appreciate the respectful approach thank you🙂
You are welcome
depends
I listen to my gut. some men lie and cry to make it believable but if its a genuine tear from real sadness then almost always, I feel bad for the guy
I would feel sympathetic towards the man who was crying in front of me.
I am not good at comforting a crying person, but I would try to comfort that man however I can.
It makes me sad because men don’t cry a lot in public and I’m already empathetic but when it comes to men crying it’s always over something really bad and I try to comfort them best I can
Feel sad and console them. There's nothing shameful about crying if you've been hurt.
Is that 22 KT gold Jewelry you have? I have a 22 KT gold necklace like the one you are wearing
@888theGreat Dude you're spot on Lol that's 22 karat haar. Are you Indian?
No a cowboy, just joking. Nope , but Jewelry I have is from India
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