That is because you squeeze too hard when it is inside
Well said sir...
Thank you :)
Nice... Be nice dear
Makes me uncomfortable them crying unless a death or something it's not normal to me. I won't even cry in public
I'm with ya there... to be honest though... when my friend ran over my dog and killed him... i was close
If you didn't I'd wonder
Skeetskeet that is rude. 😛😛
@666dangerouswoman it is@skeetskeetskeet rude
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@I-am-a-nobody where I live it's not okay for men to cry unless something major happens.. I don't even cry in public because of pride and suchI'm sure it would help if I saw it more and I hate it makes me so uncomfortable.
@WowwGirlIt's not okay where I live either, but I model the change I want to see by weeping.When I had cancer, I cried in front of my pastors and they prayer for me.When my pastor had a heart attack in the middle of a prayer meeting and I called 911 and the youth pastor gave him mouth to mouth. It was stressful. When it was over, I cried like a baby. Thankfully, most folks at my church can handle it.I don't know how guys without that kind of support system can make it.
I agree showing more emotion breaks the toxic stigma for me, good for you.
I agree we all need support
It's guarantees I'll be freaked out and sex nooooo way.
Hahaha... Agreed. I advise guys just go for a drive. Nobody want to see that. There is enough sadness in the world right? At least where I live people are like that.
@ShortCircuit I'm the same
You had me until "especially...". You should've stopped at "that". There is a place and time for crying. Period. That isn't any more or less applicable to one sex or the other.
Men should be more rational women emotional. Keeps a balance
I disagree. Men and women should be whatever the fuck they want to be.Let me be clear: When I said that men crying made me more uncomfortable than women crying, that was not me condoning the double standard. That was me acknowledging my gut feelings about men and women crying, in order to point out just how ingrained in our psychology the double standard is, and denouncing it.
I was like that until my wife and unborn son passed away. Now I am like you to a point. I have been a Paul bearer for 3 of my aunts and uncles because I can't cry much anymore. Being emotionless kinda sucks. I have gotten a back pay from disability and I was happy but no smile crossed my face. This was not small change but big money. If I am upset with you. You will hear about it. If I am pissed at you. I will stare a hole through your head starting with your eyes but I am quite. If I am in an argument with you and I go quiet. I am restraining my self from unleashing a lifetime of hurt and anger on you and thinking about the best way to deal with you. Instant silence from me is not a good thing. Running away from me might be. I have yet to break on some one. God help them when I do.
Not you personally.. by the way
That's a funny image. Everyone just crying
Haha yeah 😂
Did your 16 year old boyfriends cry in front of you? =/
Doesn't piss me off at all makes me sad
I will cry to make you feel uncomfortable. Ain't cried in 10 years so it would be hard work though
You're good I'd just leave
lol fake crys are funny as fuck. would u do that "waaa" sound too? lmao
I wish it didn't make me uncomfortable
Me niether I like happy
I don't know how to comfort a man? I would but I have no idea what to do
Let them express it and don’t shame them or make them feel awkward for doing so.
I will try that next time
No sounds sincere
Good to hear
I want him to be able to lean on me like he's my rock.. how come some women have unrealistic expectations of men and treat them like crap?
I'd comfort a guy but I have no idea how to.
This is why we say "yeah, right" when women claim emotional support is one of the reasons we need them.
I usually offer crying people tea and some Kleenex
I just am not used to guys crying and unsure what to do if I see one crying.
Just cry with us. Let it all out. Filld the wastebasket with tissues as we fill our tummies with ice cream. 😂
I'm not that girl. I'd rather take out my emotions in a cage or a ring.But that's just me I'm old fashion..
It is therapeutic, the bashing i mean. Id love to spar with you sometime. 😉😎
I call it my therapy
No you wouldn't 😂
I do 5-10 hours a week
Look just because you would kick my ass doesn't mean i wouldn't enjoy spending time with you. I got my cup and my body armor. Hopefully that will be enough. 😎
That's fair 😂
I agree but not all around the town either
@NorthwestRider sure now leave this bitch alone
Pretend your a man have some self control
You are such a snowflake that you deleted my opinion lol
@NorthwestRider I don't like dealing with catty guys who name call don't name call and your comments will stay. I don't call you names very simple stuff
I agree it does not even have to be that extreme for men to feel save with their feelings. We need to break down things that are bad for society, like allowing men to treat women like toys or men being called out for being human. sorry if I went on for too long
@likelyOK no you're great. I appreciate the respectful approach thank you🙂
You are welcome
Thank you I feel same
Is that 22 KT gold Jewelry you have? I have a 22 KT gold necklace like the one you are wearing
@888theGreat Dude you're spot on Lol that's 22 karat haar. Are you Indian?
No a cowboy, just joking. Nope , but Jewelry I have is from India