Why do you ask this annomously? I was going to give my opinion but you missed out because you are hiding behind your secret veil. That tells me something right now about them. Be honest and show us who you really are or are you too ashamed?
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I’m anonymous cause I wanna be, you don’t deserve a reason. Especially with that rotten attitude
I mean it's hard to give an opinion when you live in another country where the only time you see a Black women is when your friends a listing to WAP and Anaconda. I follow a few reaction channels on YouTube and one of them is a couple so that women is the closest black women I know. She is very emotional yet very loud, she seems to care and she have good taste of RAP. I think black women are very beautiful, the picture that you have shared speaks for itself.
I do not understand why this is a question. Like, what? This is another "general population" thing again, huh? I don't hold hate or favor to any race. The end.
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If you took the time to read the kind of answers I’m getting on this question than you’d understand
I don’t know in Western societies the stereotypes are bad it’s not worth repeating. Just try looking on the bright side. Just because someone is black doesn’t mean anything. It all comes down to individual. Making generalization on a whole race is dirty and gross and I will refuse to do it
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The stereotypes are bad you just don’t see them cause you’re a man
I just said the stereotypes are bad didn’t you read what I wrote at all? Don’t give me your pissed off attitude I’m not interested. Black people get angry and then take out their anger on random innocent people. It’s understandable if you’re angry but you don’t have to hurt innocent people. Of course not saying you individually just in general. Please and thanks.
I don't know what you want from me. I said in my original post that I don't like to make generalizations. Isn't that good enough? not sure why you feel the need to "explain" to me anything.
I was literally just saying that there are actually harmful stereotypes put on black women because you said don’t I don’t know stereotypes in western societies so I was explaining them?
Do you mean in general or as a preference in partners?
I've heard some claim that all those who don't find black women attractive are racist. That's just ridiculous. Everyone has their own preferences.
I think a lot of people don't like black (women) for constantly blaming others for their problems. I personally also dislike the stereotypical sass a black woman has. I like feminine ladies.
They are humans with everything all humans have. Not everyone in every race is the same and there are bad and good in all races. We don't choose out parents, accept people for who they are and their character and personality is what they build, judge them on that.
I don’t know many black women but I’m not one to fear people based on color of their skin. I see all races as equals but I think it’s the culture that can be scary for me, not necessarily the people.
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Loud, more prone to violence than other women, physically stronger than most races of women
more likely to take their faith seriously and be an amazing loyal wife, but unfortunately, black men have earned a very bad reputation of fking black women over and it appears to be true. So many single moms. I’d date one of the less violent ones lol, I’ve just heard black women say some scary shit about what they’d do to their man if they “caught him” and so what if she mis judges? Scary shit
Physically stronger? No if so please provide facts. More violent? Aren't white women out here murdering their husband's and buying contract killers to do their dirty work? Black men aren't necessarily the greatest either let's not talk actual facts. Every black women doesn't think the same
Right.. people love to paint black women as more masculine to try and insult them.
There is no science showing black women are apparently more masculine, there are actually studies showing black women are more feminine than other races since we literally are the beauty standard rn with the curvy body big lips which are typically black features but no one does their research they just believe in stereotypes 😂
They love masculinizing us it works in favor to the LGBT community as well I hear a bunch of trans say "if bw can be women why can't we" as if we aren't. But it's a stereotype for sure
@BlckGrl i’ve got literally nothing against black women hell I was just dating one and I would have continued if she didn’t take her second covid shot even though I warned her it was dangerous. Most races of women have lower bone density than males but black women have very strong bones comparatively. Nothing wrong with it just chill lol. Look how offended y'all are. If someone told me jews are less athletic than other races I wouldn’t be freaking out, it’s true. How many jewish athletes do you see? Now how many black athletes? There are differences between the races
By comparison, often unfiltered speech and less delicate. I like sheer cuteness, so being as delicate as can be is the easiest way to attract me, but I have found a couple of black girls attractive in the past.
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We are always stereotyped that way it’s annoying. Can people stop making so many negative assumptions
I'm sorry. You did mean unfiltered prejudice, and I had to think about it and about previous black women I've known to come up with that answer. If that's a stereotype you're tired of, I'll let you know I always quickly change away from preconceived notions when meeting someone and offer ample benefit of the doubt to not act upon prejudice I may recognize that I have.
As an Indian woman I can tell you that racial stereotyping is not done only to black women. It is only the east Asians whose femininity is never questioned even when they're masculine, rude, aggressive and unattractive. It is a white man's world as he colonized it so what's considered beautiful will depend on his desires and fetishes.
Yeah they’re nice people. I have a few black girls as my closest friends and went to school in a mostly black school so I knew a lot of black girls. You’ve all been really nice. Sometimes very loud but I like that because my hearing isn’t good lol
Honestly hate these questions and more than half the answers it’s Disgusting and sad. I love us because we don’t fold when we’re literally the most disrespected.
When Indian and Asian women want to come join the group and speak up on how they avoid certain topics of discussion yet they’re a minority themselves then come sit at the table. If not I don’t want to hear it. Because y’all don’t be marching or fighting injustice with us which is part of the problem. Silence is a problem.
I've had a lot of crushes on black girls, so yeah? I'd say you guys are desirable. And this is coming from white/mixed Asian guy, so I think you guys are desirable for all races.
I'm not black and don't care about skin color. But, there is a big difference from my college friends and black culture as whole. Needs a family 👪 culture.
It depends on these women’s personalities not the color of your skin, but I do admit that with all the stereotypes out there it can be hard to not judge a person at first glance and assume something that’s simple not true
Lmao right, so many of y’all have such bigoted opinions about black women yet claim racism doesn’t exist no more so we need to shut up about the issues we go cause of ignorant people like you
I try to ignore it most of these people are white let's not get into their stereotypes. Pedophilic, murderous, prone to beastiality and school shootings but let's not bring that up
Asker asked for unfiltered thoughts. Don't whine when you get them.
Go ahead and talk about stereotypes of whoever you like. You already do anyways, so why bother hiding it?
Personally, I actually am racist, but I wasn't, as recently as two years ago. Too much evidence has piled up recently for me to be able to rationalize it away. So fuck it, these are my opinions. I've acquired them unwillingly, but we are where we are.
You can be racist against me, too, if you want. It'd be hypocritical for me to think otherwise. Also, it makes no difference, since I got called a racist just as much when I wasn't racist as I do now that I am racist. In fact that observation, that certain other people hated me no matter what, is part of why I raised that racism makes sense, as a self defense measure.
It makes sense that you're racist all racist are a bit slow. To dislike a group of people due to color and to even believe that being a certain color means you exhibit certain traits. If you want to be completely fucking honest the stereotypes I listed above aren't really stereotypes
I'm aggressive bc im black isn't true. I'm loud and annoying bc I'm black isn't true. Racists are Incredibly slow its so easy to counter any "point" you guys make
Yeah, generalizations based on my experiences. That's exactly what I'm talking about. What I believe to be true is based on what I see. If I have been misled by unlucky experiences, then so be it. I assumed that was the case for a long time, but too much evidence built up for me to keep assuming that.
Remember: something that is generally true is not automatically always true. But I have a feeling that's an idea that some people will just never wrap their heads around.
What YOU BELIEVE. Doesn't make it true. None of whst you said is generally true bit since it is what about the stereotypes I listed above about white people that may not actually be stereotypes at all because it's so prominent.
Honestly I've always thought the majority of them had a unique beauty that is hard to replicate. They're loud and they have strong opinions but that's not all of them.
They seem too race obsessed and hypersensitive about race for my tastes. I wouldn't want to be told that I'm "Fetishizing" her or something stupid because I like her. They're attitudes are kinda not worth the hassle these days.
There's no such thing as fetishizing an entire woman of any race, it doesn't fit the definition of a fetish, but your attitude about it is a perfect example of what I'm talking about. You wanted my unfiltered opinion, then just learn from it.
And if by hypersensitive by race I’m assuming racism than you shouldn’t ever date a black girl just date a white woman cause we aren’t going to stop talking about the issues we face as black women in society?
You really want to get into this, because I can tear it apart for you? You can't just change the definition of terms to fit whatever racist narrative you like. A fetish is the sexual fixation of an object or body part that isn't typically seen as sexual. Black women are already naturally, sexually attractive to ALL males, just like women of all other races. You can't fetishize something that's already typically sexually attractive. Otherwise any person of any race being attracted to anyone else would be seen as a fetish. The term "Fetishizing" isn't even a real word. It's just a made up term that racist, jealous and insecure people use to shame primarily white males for dating women of color. The term you're looking for is "Sexual objectification." That's real, but some people like to be objectified and some don't.
As a person who was in an interracial marriage for 15 years and the father of a Mixed race child I understand this topic very well. I've had to live with people's ignorant perceptions of my relationship long before you were born.
Who the hell said I was married to a Black woman? I already established that I'm not interested in dating Black women for the exact reasons I stated above in my answer. This conversation with you here is an exact example of what I imagine everyday would be like if I was in a White male/Black female relationship.
My whole statement is useless because you haven’t even dated a black woman before so why do you feel so strongly about them? That’s like hating ice cream and you’ve never even tried it before, see how stupid that is
It's relevant because the concept of Fetishing any man or woman regardless of her race is incorrect. It doesn't exist, it's called "Objectification" and it doesn't require the participants to be interracial to be achieved. All people of different sexes sexually objectify each other, it's what facilitates reproduction. Morphing that into a "Fetish" and blaming White males only is what I mean by a racist narrative. I haven't dated Black women before, but I have had long conversations and attempted to be close friends with a few. I can't deal with the constant racial conversations and how all of her problems seem to be related to racism in her eyes. Not to mention her obvious deep hatred of other races that she hides. It's too much. Maybe one day I will meet a Black woman who never talks about race or obsesses about it, but for now I just don't bother pursuing Black women personally.
Also, I didn't get a chance to watch your video because I'm at work, but I've seen clips like that and what they're likely talking about would be called "Stereotyping and Objectifying. " Again, Fetishizing an entire woman doesn't exist.
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Why do you ask this annomously? I was going to give my opinion but you missed out because you are hiding behind your secret veil. That tells me something right now about them. Be honest and show us who you really are or are you too ashamed?
I’m anonymous cause I wanna be, you don’t deserve a reason. Especially with that rotten attitude
Then you don't deserve our opinions!
I mean it's hard to give an opinion when you live in another country where the only time you see a Black women is when your friends a listing to WAP and Anaconda. I follow a few reaction channels on YouTube and one of them is a couple so that women is the closest black women I know. She is very emotional yet very loud, she seems to care and she have good taste of RAP.
I think black women are very beautiful, the picture that you have shared speaks for itself.
I do not understand why this is a question. Like, what? This is another "general population" thing again, huh?
I don't hold hate or favor to any race. The end.
If you took the time to read the kind of answers I’m getting on this question than you’d understand
I don’t know in Western societies the stereotypes are bad it’s not worth repeating. Just try looking on the bright side. Just because someone is black doesn’t mean anything. It all comes down to individual. Making generalization on a whole race is dirty and gross and I will refuse to do it
The stereotypes are bad you just don’t see them cause you’re a man
Were stereotypes as being loud, ghetto, “hood rats”, baby mamas on welfare. Fat and ugly, etc. it’s annoying
And whenever a black girls pretty everyone always assume she’s mixed cause society is so racist they can’t fathom a fully black girls pretty
I just said the stereotypes are bad didn’t you read what I wrote at all? Don’t give me your pissed off attitude I’m not interested. Black people get angry and then take out their anger on random innocent people. It’s understandable if you’re angry but you don’t have to hurt innocent people. Of course not saying you individually just in general. Please and thanks.
I never gave an attitude I was just explaining, lol what
This is a perfect example of how it doesn’t matter what you do as a black girl society always puts labels like angry and rude on you 😃
I don't know what you want from me. I said in my original post that I don't like to make generalizations. Isn't that good enough? not sure why you feel the need to "explain" to me anything.
I never said anything I was simply explaining and you took offense to that for no reason
I was literally just saying that there are actually harmful stereotypes put on black women because you said don’t I don’t know stereotypes in western societies so I was explaining them?
I guess I should have put punctuation. I meant “I don’t know, in Western societies the stereotypes are bad, it’s not worth repeating”.
Sorry for my bad punctuation.
Do you mean in general or as a preference in partners?
I've heard some claim that all those who don't find black women attractive are racist. That's just ridiculous. Everyone has their own preferences.
I think a lot of people don't like black (women) for constantly blaming others for their problems. I personally also dislike the stereotypical sass a black woman has. I like feminine ladies.
They are humans with everything all humans have. Not everyone in every race is the same and there are bad and good in all races. We don't choose out parents, accept people for who they are and their character and personality is what they build, judge them on that.
I don’t know many black women but I’m not one to fear people based on color of their skin. I see all races as equals but I think it’s the culture that can be scary for me, not necessarily the people.
Loud, more prone to violence than other women, physically stronger than most races of women
more likely to take their faith seriously and be an amazing loyal wife, but unfortunately, black men have earned a very bad reputation of fking black women over and it appears to be true. So many single moms. I’d date one of the less violent ones lol, I’ve just heard black women say some scary shit about what they’d do to their man if they “caught him” and so what if she mis judges? Scary shit
You have prejudice
You can’t just generalize an entire race
Especially negative stereotypes
That lead to black women being harmed and silenced/not taken seriously
We’re one of the most vulnerable groups of women yet society labels us loud, ghetto, violent, etc.
Yeah whatever lol I said I’d date one so chill
Well that wasn’t my issue
Physically stronger? No if so please provide facts. More violent? Aren't white women out here murdering their husband's and buying contract killers to do their dirty work? Black men aren't necessarily the greatest either let's not talk actual facts. Every black women doesn't think the same
Right.. people love to paint black women as more masculine to try and insult them.
There is no science showing black women are apparently more masculine, there are actually studies showing black women are more feminine than other races since we literally are the beauty standard rn with the curvy body big lips which are typically black features but no one does their research they just believe in stereotypes 😂
They love masculinizing us it works in favor to the LGBT community as well I hear a bunch of trans say "if bw can be women why can't we" as if we aren't. But it's a stereotype for sure
@BlckGrl i’ve got literally nothing against black women hell I was just dating one and I would have continued if she didn’t take her second covid shot even though I warned her it was dangerous. Most races of women have lower bone density than males but black women have very strong bones comparatively. Nothing wrong with it just chill lol. Look how offended y'all are. If someone told me jews are less athletic than other races I wouldn’t be freaking out, it’s true. How many jewish athletes do you see? Now how many black athletes? There are differences between the races
Oh god..
You’re dense
By comparison, often unfiltered speech and less delicate.
I like sheer cuteness, so being as delicate as can be is the easiest way to attract me, but I have found a couple of black girls attractive in the past.
We are always stereotyped that way it’s annoying. Can people stop making so many negative assumptions
No other race of women has to deal with being called “less delicate” and constantly having our femininity questioned. I’m sick and tired
I'm sorry. You did mean unfiltered prejudice, and I had to think about it and about previous black women I've known to come up with that answer. If that's a stereotype you're tired of, I'll let you know I always quickly change away from preconceived notions when meeting someone and offer ample benefit of the doubt to not act upon prejudice I may recognize that I have.
As an Indian woman I can tell you that racial stereotyping is not done only to black women. It is only the east Asians whose femininity is never questioned even when they're masculine, rude, aggressive and unattractive. It is a white man's world as he colonized it so what's considered beautiful will depend on his desires and fetishes.
Yeah they’re nice people. I have a few black girls as my closest friends and went to school in a mostly black school so I knew a lot of black girls. You’ve all been really nice. Sometimes very loud but I like that because my hearing isn’t good lol
Honestly hate these questions and more than half the answers it’s Disgusting and sad. I love us because we don’t fold when we’re literally the most disrespected.
Indians are also the most disrespected and most of us just accept the racism instead of speaking against it.
@Babygirl_S most Indians are racist and colorist themselves. And you don’t speak for all Indians anyways
@InvaderSims who even are you?
When Indian and Asian women want to come join the group and speak up on how they avoid certain topics of discussion yet they’re a minority themselves then come sit at the table. If not I don’t want to hear it. Because y’all don’t be marching or fighting injustice with us which is part of the problem. Silence is a problem.
Yeah it's always black this black that
Omg India is literally in Asia!
No one said it wasn’t
@InvaderSims lmao no ones forcing you to be here
@asker girl you’re good I’m not responding anymore I can’t 😭
I didn't say that you did but ok lol
I've had a lot of crushes on black girls, so yeah? I'd say you guys are desirable. And this is coming from white/mixed Asian guy, so I think you guys are desirable for all races.
I'm not black and don't care about skin color. But, there is a big difference from my college friends and black culture as whole. Needs a family 👪 culture.
It depends on these women’s personalities not the color of your skin, but I do admit that with all the stereotypes out there it can be hard to not judge a person at first glance and assume something that’s simple not true
Usually loud and annoying, with nothing interesting to offer. And rarely attractive, in my opinion.
We love a good generalization 🥰
Lmao right, so many of y’all have such bigoted opinions about black women yet claim racism doesn’t exist no more so we need to shut up about the issues we go cause of ignorant people like you
I try to ignore it most of these people are white let's not get into their stereotypes. Pedophilic, murderous, prone to beastiality and school shootings but let's not bring that up
Lmao truee
I'll take loud and aggressive over that shit anyday
Asker asked for unfiltered thoughts. Don't whine when you get them.
Go ahead and talk about stereotypes of whoever you like. You already do anyways, so why bother hiding it?
Personally, I actually am racist, but I wasn't, as recently as two years ago. Too much evidence has piled up recently for me to be able to rationalize it away. So fuck it, these are my opinions. I've acquired them unwillingly, but we are where we are.
You can be racist against me, too, if you want. It'd be hypocritical for me to think otherwise. Also, it makes no difference, since I got called a racist just as much when I wasn't racist as I do now that I am racist. In fact that observation, that certain other people hated me no matter what, is part of why I raised that racism makes sense, as a self defense measure.
It makes sense that you're racist all racist are a bit slow. To dislike a group of people due to color and to even believe that being a certain color means you exhibit certain traits. If you want to be completely fucking honest the stereotypes I listed above aren't really stereotypes
Are you that same girl from another question, who couldn't seem to grasp that a stereotype can be generally true without being universally true?
Stereotypes about an entire population based off the color of their skin is racism
Um no I am not. Nothing you said was true just generalizations based on your experiences
Exactly asker.
I'm aggressive bc im black isn't true. I'm loud and annoying bc I'm black isn't true. Racists are Incredibly slow its so easy to counter any "point" you guys make
Yeah, generalizations based on my experiences. That's exactly what I'm talking about. What I believe to be true is based on what I see. If I have been misled by unlucky experiences, then so be it. I assumed that was the case for a long time, but too much evidence built up for me to keep assuming that.
Remember: something that is generally true is not automatically always true. But I have a feeling that's an idea that some people will just never wrap their heads around.
What YOU BELIEVE. Doesn't make it true. None of whst you said is generally true bit since it is what about the stereotypes I listed above about white people that may not actually be stereotypes at all because it's so prominent.
Girls like anyone else.
likely being from the UK I see it differently, however I tend to see girl first and not ethnicity.
I'd love to date more of them but I have that "White 40ish Southern Male" upbringing to me so they tend not to see past that here.
Honestly I've always thought the majority of them had a unique beauty that is hard to replicate. They're loud and they have strong opinions but that's not all of them.
For example, I wanted afro style hair when I was a kid. That's beautiful to me. And they have it naturally.
They seem too race obsessed and hypersensitive about race for my tastes.
I wouldn't want to be told that I'm "Fetishizing" her or something stupid because I like her.
They're attitudes are kinda not worth the hassle these days.
Western ones anyway.
Because we are fetishized all the time, don’t get mad if you get called out for fetishizing. Evaluate yourself
There's no such thing as fetishizing an entire woman of any race, it doesn't fit the definition of a fetish, but your attitude about it is a perfect example of what I'm talking about.
You wanted my unfiltered opinion, then just learn from it.
Lol yes there is a concept called racial fetishization.
www.forbes.com/.../?sh=e0450ae6e39a
I’m not giving an attitude I’m explaining why you’re wrong
And if by hypersensitive by race I’m assuming racism than you shouldn’t ever date a black girl just date a white woman cause we aren’t going to stop talking about the issues we face as black women in society?
You really want to get into this, because I can tear it apart for you?
You can't just change the definition of terms to fit whatever racist narrative you like.
A fetish is the sexual fixation of an object or body part that isn't typically seen as sexual.
Black women are already naturally, sexually attractive to ALL males, just like women of all other races.
You can't fetishize something that's already typically sexually attractive.
Otherwise any person of any race being attracted to anyone else would be seen as a fetish.
The term "Fetishizing" isn't even a real word. It's just a made up term that racist, jealous and insecure people use to shame primarily white males for dating women of color.
The term you're looking for is "Sexual objectification." That's real, but some people like to be objectified and some don't.
You’re missing the point
Completely
I am exactly on point, you're young and ignorant so far.
I’m trying to explain something you don’t understand
https://youtu.be/WHCFs_jWuNQ
You can do your research, this is what black women face.
As a person who was in an interracial marriage for 15 years and the father of a Mixed race child I understand this topic very well.
I've had to live with people's ignorant perceptions of my relationship long before you were born.
It’s a shame you have a mixed race child and don’t want to learn about the struggles their black mom has to go threw
Even if the moms a bad person you do realize your mixed race child’s going to live life as a black man/women in society’s eyes
Who the hell said I was married to a Black woman?
I already established that I'm not interested in dating Black women for the exact reasons I stated above in my answer. This conversation with you here is an exact example of what I imagine everyday would be like if I was in a White male/Black female relationship.
I assumed because why would you even bring it up if it wasn’t with a bw if that’s the topic 😂 lmao
My whole statement is useless because you haven’t even dated a black woman before so why do you feel so strongly about them? That’s like hating ice cream and you’ve never even tried it before, see how stupid that is
Either way you should date a white women if you “don’t care about racism”
It's relevant because the concept of Fetishing any man or woman regardless of her race is incorrect.
It doesn't exist, it's called "Objectification" and it doesn't require the participants to be interracial to be achieved. All people of different sexes sexually objectify each other, it's what facilitates reproduction.
Morphing that into a "Fetish" and blaming White males only is what I mean by a racist narrative.
I haven't dated Black women before, but I have had long conversations and attempted to be close friends with a few.
I can't deal with the constant racial conversations and how all of her problems seem to be related to racism in her eyes. Not to mention her obvious deep hatred of other races that she hides.
It's too much.
Maybe one day I will meet a Black woman who never talks about race or obsesses about it, but for now I just don't bother pursuing Black women personally.
You’re confused and I wasn’t even there so how am I supposed to know an entire race based off a few people
Also, I didn't get a chance to watch your video because I'm at work, but I've seen clips like that and what they're likely talking about would be called "Stereotyping and Objectifying. "
Again, Fetishizing an entire woman doesn't exist.
I like some of them and i dislike some of them. Depending on how their raise i can get along with them or not.