Just like with other people who happen to be whatever different "races," I like some, don't like others. It's the individual and the culture they're in as opposed to race.
If we're talking about attraction and dating, which for these purposes, I'll assume we are... I'm "physically attracted" to some, not to others. Again, it's not the "race." I don't go "oh, gotta have a (n) _____________ (fill in the blank on race) woman!" Others can do that, it's just not my own thing. My last "crush" was black. Several of my past crushes were biracial; back to middle or high school. Many were white. It's accessibility, it's who I'm around... etc. So most have been white. But not all.
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First thing is before I submit my I don't want be called a racist or some other stupid shit.
I think many black women are cute and all, but I have a reasons not to chase one.
The biggest one I'm very much married for the last 26 years
Two I never had the chance to. Well I guess I did back in middle school I did. She like me and all that, but back at that time girls were still icky to me.
Number 3 reason. Where I live, in my area. I almost never see a black woman let alone a black man.
But that because I live in a big farning remote area. The biggest town by me. Only has 700 people
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I can't say I interact with black women nearly as often as white women, mostly just because I see more white women around. In my experience, white women tend to be entitled and think the world revolves around them. If a woman is much more humble and modest, then I'll date her. It doesn't matter her race. I don't have some sort of fetish for black women, it just matters her personality and lifestyle. I go to a gym often and eat healthy so that I am in shape, so it's good if she does as well, for example.
Some are beautiful. Some are not.
Generally speaking, I do not find black women as attractive as other ethnicities. That said, it tends to be the ethnicities I don't focus on as much who surprise me with an example of a shockingly beautiful woman, much more beautiful than the women around her.
And girls who are half or quarter black tend to be gorgeous.
But would I date one?
I wouldn't discount it, but I'd say maybe not. But that's due to how we're raised. Someone who is black was probably raised in a culture different than mine, and sometimes cultural clashes in a relationship lead to bad misunderstandings or hurt feelings.
I find it easier to, for a serious relationship, date someone who is not culturally different to me.Tbh Idc about a girl's skin color. Sure, I have my preferences, everyone does. But a person's skin color makes no difference in whether I'd date them or not. Also, what I think about black women? It varies from person to person. Some are cool, some are cooky, but from who I've met most are kind people.
Yes but 99% dont meet my standards. I dont care what race you are but:
Must be thin or athletic
Not into ghetto poor people culture
Must be conservative
So yes there are black girls I've dated but honestly its very rare to find one like this.I can't relate to black culture at all. That being said...
I tend to view them as nurturing and as mothers due to all my school teachers were black women from the age of 5-11.
My mom was always working and those are the women I spent most of the day with.Because it's like a unforbidden fruit it's like opening your thighs and legs up and smiling at that red bird kiss and lick on the red bird plus I've heard black women know how to f*** a lot better than white women put white women know how to suck a lot better than black women so I would like a mixture of both races
Yes I would but there is a smaller fraction of female among the black women that really appeals to me. Compared most other colored groups. And the female culture in Africa is something I don't want to touch at all. So she needs to have another culture.
This is tough for me to answer since I don't want to date anyone. I just want to be single. But I am more attracted to black women. Also, I get more attention from black girls. That's actually one of the things that sparked my interest towards black girls. My first black female friend was in 6th grade. If I change my mind from living single to a long-term relationship, she would have to be a conservative, feminine woman. Skirts, heels, sweet, loves to cuddle, cook and clean, etc.
I've dated black women, I seemed to get on better with the couple of Nigerian women I dated in general. African American women seem to be a lot of work, confrontational and expect a lot while giving little in return. There was one British girl I dated who was black, let's just say when she went home my heart was broke.
I would date a black woman as I have held an attraction towards them for as long as I can remember. That said I have also held attractions towards other races too. I wouldn't dismiss someone as datable due to race because everyone has an individual personality that you have to like but I will admit I do lean towards one or two first before I think of the others. At the end of the day, if you were in a dark room with the lights off, how would you even know?
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