Are interacial relationships destroying black culture in America?

[Anonymous]

I feel like immigration and slavery fucked everything up we were never meant to be here we were always meant to be with our people in Africa. I see black men dating and getting married to white women and even having children with them and it's sickening to see it. As a black woman, I've been rejected by so many black men for just being black. Is this how you want to cut off our legacy, by having mixed children it's absolutely insane black men need to be taught to stay with black women and stop having children with white women.

[Anonymous]

Fellow black woman here, and what you’re saying sounds a bit racist, although I do understand your frustration. Our legacies and our families legacies live through each person regardless of who they marry, and if it’s cut off then it’s because that individual isn’t honoring it. If you don’t feel good enough, then that’s some self esteem issues you gotta work on. Uplift and love yourself, doesn’t matter if a man is doing that no matter what race he is. For the black men who aren’t dating black women specifically, as if their moms and family members aren’t black then they also have some shit to work on. But they do not speak for the majority, and eventually you will find your man. But all this hate speech, with everything going on in this world is just not helpful to you or anyone. If you are angry, maybe you need a therapist or a support group or something. But that frame of mind is a cancer, not helping or fixing anything but digging a deeper wedge between races.

[NamerOfStars]

So it's "absolutely insane" to say people should NOT be forced to date within their own ethnicity? What makes you think you have some kind of claim on black men, just because they share your skin color?

Anyone else remember when racial discrimination was a BAD thing?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Black men are the biggest race traitors there is. They will lick the toilet to be with a non black women and worship them while people from that family secretly can't stand them and will always reject them as part of their own.

Love kissing 🍑 with no shame.

[Mrwallace]

Your question is a tough one. I’m a white man married to a black woman and I can assure you that question comes from both sides often in the worst ways. I don’t know that frustration and while I don’t knowingly associate with people who have those thoughts I can tell you interracial relationships come with a cost. We get it from all angles (some more direct than others but the honesty is appreciated). I dont see it as a choice, but if it is, I promise you It’s not a wise or easy one. I hope you find a solid black man that treats you right, but in the meantime my biracial son will remain a black man so don’t look at it like a loss. I’m fortunate to have strong black friends to fill in the gaps on things I can never understand or explain.

[TheBigWhistle]

Maybe your winning personality is why black men are rejecting you. Ever consider that?

[Anonymous]

There are certainly serious problems with black culture in America, but they have nothing to do with interracial dating.

[OddBeMe]

I’d say the lack of interracial relationships is hurting every culture.

[jahaims]

Nope