Is anyone else done trusting people in general?

[IJhonnyI]

My trust is at 0% with anyone that's human why cause life showed me its better that way sadly its just how I'm living but honestly there's been less disappointment that way any one agrees or has a different viewpoint from me? If so why?

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+1 y

Family doesn't count

[lightbulb27]

interesting. there's truth in many perspectives. I agree... and disagree.

This is really about trusting yourself and not submitting to others. Be your own man, trust your gut (listen to the inner intuition that is good), honor yourself. As well, have an open mind to learn and be inquisitive. Know your skills and abilities and find others who are better than you at other things.

Trust people.. yes and no. Everyone is human (flawed), I expect them to be flawed... with narrow perspectives based upon their hormones, ancestors, environment, emotions, upbringing, and experiences. They aren't going to match.

Some people are outright liars, many will lie to themselves. Humans are a product of our broken emotional state.

Also... find Christ, that gives a better perspective over humanity. Getting your "world view" right makes a big difference in life.

hope that helped. don't go through life with fear, but with awreness.

[IJhonnyI]

Amazing well said I'm a believer my self me not trusting people has nothing to do with the connection I have with God

[IJhonnyI]

But yes you are correct move through life not being fearful but with awareness 🙏🏽

[Shamalien]

It is truly difficult to trust people. I was a very trusting kid, now I’m quite distrustful. I trust people to various extents. I know which friends have my back and which would stab me in it. Family, nuclear family is pretty solid for me, but it really depends on your family.

Trust yourself, and aim to be a person worth trusting.

[Rose_84]

Same here. I don't trust anyone in terms of loyalty these days. Who knows if they'll jump onto a new person who interests them?

[IJhonnyI]

That's one of my worries the other one is people don't like you as much as they claim they do

[JoyGirl]

I don’t automatically trust. My trust has to be built up.
The moment the person starts acting sus, I step back. 😂

[IJhonnyI]

"Acting sus"🤣😂 felt that tho

[JoyGirl]

🤣🤣🤣

[IJhonnyI]

And I just needed someone too tell this too, I was really nice to this girl right, and she said something nice back and then I said something nice back and then I ended saying "maybe I can end up hearing your nice voice" and she send me a number, I'm pretty sure it was a fake number I told her it's not a number that worked, maybe it did work, but that's not the point then I said I'm not able to call her cause she lives too far she said we can "talk on another source" and I was like "look I don't want to force you too do anything you don't wanna do" and she said "okay let's continue texting here" and I was like "okay but I'm gonna go to bed ill text you when I wake up" (I said that because I was up all night) then here I am I woke up I see a post she posted saying "i rejected a guy and he insulted me" so basically what I'm asking is was she talking about me because i was not hitting on her and not at all did I insult her I wasn't raised that way and I jus needed someone to tell me too chill because if I figure out she's talking about me when I didn't do none of that I'm gonna straight up delete her so please just help me out cause you a cool chill female (you think I'm just jumping in front cause I asked this ain't about me right I still got no answer for now

[JoyGirl]

Dm…lol

[JoyGirl]

Thank you for the MHO. 💜

[boggboss]

Fair enough if that's what works for u I still have trust in friends and family but meh

[IJhonnyI]

Family don't count in my book family is automatic trust and respect but friends not for me but like you told me what ever works for you bro

[boggboss]

Thats it there is no sure fire way that works for everyone so just whatever u think works is best 👍

[IJhonnyI]

💯🤝🏼🔥

[Anonymous]

No. I trust. I just have a very short tolerance. In other words I'll trust you but it's up to you to keep me trusting you. When my trust is lost. It's VERY HARD to get it back.

[IJhonnyI]

Yep that was me, but now I jus rather stay alone I've had less negative energy coming my way everything's been good for me

[Opinion Owner]

I totally understand man. And I was where you are at one time. But it really is a a wonderful world with many really wonderful people. Don't let the bad apples ruin the potential for many great experiences for you. Because then they win.

[IJhonnyI]

Thanks for that bro but seriously wish you were in my shoes it's worth then you think bro I get it "I'm young" but I've been through stuff I grew up way faster then others yea I might still have my anger issues but shit with what I've seen and been in you need them out here and trust me everyone around were I'm around is out too get cha but I know there's Good people in the world those are the people I talk too (I don't really talk to anyone) but my family of course my family is not included best family I could ever ask for

[Blackcosmo]

I don't trust people anyways. They could leave me in the blink of an eye.

[serious]

@blackcosmo

Okay

[jshm2]

Nah, quit being a drama queen.

Only untrustworthy people cannot be trusted. You are probably not as honest and trustworthy as you like to think. Hence end up falling for traps.

[IJhonnyI]

Don't assume who I am bro am I assuming who you are clearly you aren't trustworthy if you got offended so get the fuck out of here will ya

[Dinosaursandanime65]

https://youtu.be/_7VCo1VXpuc

[OddBeMe]

Oh i was never trusting. No one knows anyone, not really.

[IJhonnyI]

💯🤝🏼

[serious]

I have basic trust on people. That's it.

[exitseven]

I do trus people a lot less than I used to.

[Kingofkings1992]

Been that way for years

[lofii]

Who hurt you?

[IJhonnyI]

Loaded question bro and your lucky you didn't get my message they took it down so let's just forget the bad blood deal squidward cause I ain't trying to get arrested 😂

[lofii]

Give me your address and I'll send ms13 your way

[IJhonnyI]

Bro wtf I don't get retards like you you like started problems or something with people you know can't reach you I just said let's forget the bad blood and you wanna continue alr just shut the fuck up your seeming like the chihuahua in reality its what you are online and in real life I could already tell

[IJhonnyI]

@lofii are you fucking gay or something

[IJhonnyI]

Cause it just seems like you have a problem with straight people😂😂😂

[lofii]

Didn't think so

[IJhonnyI]

Bro ur human, do you think your Luke cage 😂cause I can prove it you are not, little one😂