Why are there so many unhappy people is life that hard or are people just spoiled and don't try to fix themselves instead blaming everyone else?

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[jennifer_bloom]

Fixing yourself is hard and involves being unhappy - think of the Wall Street guys who work exhausting jobs for 13 hours a day to buy the yachts that make angry strangers harass them - I was harassed at work for trying too hard to do a good job because people thought I was competing with them for status at work.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's super easy to just see yourself as the victim in life and blame others instead of putting effort and bettering yourself.