Why are contemporary liberal democrats and a lot of "woke people" so rude to me?

I have autism and adhd. They offend me. They make me feel uncomfortable. Im not a conservative or a republican. I often advocate for social justice but im also a realist because how can you create true social justice unless you acknowledge the reality of things.
Why are contemporary liberal democrats and a lot of "woke people" so rude to me?
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