#2 in a series. What is this "thing" with Women complaining about "Creepy" or "Off-putting Men" ?

[HighlyQuestionable]

This is a society with different kinds of people. Naturally some have different ways of socializing. But it appears to me that an increasing majority of Women have a problem with men (particularily less than model-attractive men) showing any interest in them. Are they extremely "Snow-Flakey" or am I missing the point. I especially want to hear from our FEMALE viewers.

[slatyb]

That's not it. They have a problem with guys who don't understand obvious signs of disinterest, who persist after being told "no".

[242plusInfinity]

Sometimes but I've already heard plenty of girls make fun of ugly guys approaching them (not with the guy around ofc). They often say they wish unattractive guys didn't want them.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Yes, it is it. I contend that Women do not have the right to assume that their often confusing "non verbal" cues are to be understood, nor that this lack of being able to "read someone's mind" is grounds to act hostile to the unfortunate sap who isn't "picking up what she's putting down".

Furthermore, I would argue that Women ignoring or ostracizing men (for whatever reason not grounded in observable fact) is the equal and opposite of milder forms of sexual/social harassment against women (that is) perpetrated by men.

"Freedom to" and "freedom from" are equals. Men who are ignored, ostracized, or rejected by women (and the homosexual equivalent relations) suffer lifelong "social privation" illnesses, overall poorer health.

Speaking as if I am anything like "average" men: Women/Girls, when you reject or mistreat a man/boy, you are harming him. Men are not angry about being rejected, they are HURT.

[HighlyQuestionable]

@242plusInfinity

Yes 242, I think that you are "on to something" here. ... and they show no concern for the effect on these "ugly" men either, do they?

This has a solution, actually several:

1. People in general being less shallow (short-term)
2. Genetic alterations/plastic surgery so that everyone is (more or less) beautiful. (long-term).

[HighlyQuestionable]

Slatyb, When someone says "NO" that's a different story.

[ArtemisSilver]

I think the term for it is natural selection 🤣

[HighlyQuestionable]

a. We can have "natural selection" (the Jungle) or we can have a Civil Society. Not both.

b. Natural selection would not favor looks at all. The qualities that most benefit evolution, intelligence, rapid healing, altruism, etc. do not SEEM to be the most popular.

[ArtemisSilver]

Sounds like a lot of belly ache from a loser to me 🤣

[HighlyQuestionable]

(thumbs nose @ ArtemisSilver nyaaah!)