I think there’s a quite a debate between people, for example some Women can’t show their hair to men and even though transwomen Identity as a women some people believe they don’t so they wouldn’t be able to comfortably fix their clothes etc. Also some women who have been assaulted by men are scared and trauma issues but what do you think?
Do you think there should be separate toilets for transgender?
The world does not revolve around peoples trauma. If anything thinking or acting like it does or expecting people to act as if it does revolve around your trauma is asking for more of it. Because you might as well be painting a target on yourself. Because their are people who will pick up on that and push back or attack you due to that. Pushing people to change something because of your trauma or issues also paints a target on yourself. So you can get some help to overcome your trauma and move past it or simply walk around dealing with all the fall out that comes from having unresolved issues.
I was kidnapped and molested as a kid, raised by a single mother with really bad taste in men and she has had cancer since her teens. So I know about having actual unresolved trauma and going through life dealing with the fall out from it. I also know about getting help to resolve it and moving past it. Now that I have gotten past mine, I have zero sympathy for those that choose to not get help for theirs. Because not seeking help is a choice we can make and we can choose to work through our issues is a choice we can make as well.
So don't expect me to put a new bathroom in to my business or house because your issues dictate that you need one. Own your issues and get help to deal with them.
The act of cutting off your Pingas, patching up that area, putting an axe wound there, and then going around lying to everyone that you’re a girl. That’s disgusting
trans people need to stop abusing women for their own selfish issues. All the implications of this have come down on women, who now have to deal with men peeing on their toilets.
I'd suggest all bathrooms labeled "roosters/etc" "hens" and people figure out which is which. If space permits make a family bathroom they can use, but not fair to require businesses to make separate bathroom for people that don't know if they are a rooster/etc or a hen. Etc means includes all.
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Look, why dont we just have separate toilets for everyone and this whole problem just goes away forever.
Its literally the only thing you can ever do, so lets just get on with it already.
I dont care by the way about sharing I would be happy to share with any and all genders, all i want to be when using a public toilet is safe and you can't keep anyone safe regardless of their genitals if other people can be in there too because criminals come in all types, shapes and sizes.
So thats the long and the short of it.
It doesn't matter who you are or where you are in the world and this will always be the case, so lets just get on and do the work that needs to be done and then never think about this again.
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I think they should have 3 bathrooms men, women, and "other" or unisex if you prefer.
I had a friend who worked in a women's prison. And one of her co-workers was a transgendered female to male. She, because she was a Trans female to male, wanted use of the men's locker room. The prison instead gave her her own private locker room. And she sued the state prison system for discrimination (and won).
I'm not against Trans people. And I could understand her suing if they had made her continue to share the women's room. But they tried to accommodate her by giving her her own locker room.
I’ve no straight opinion, as I myself know not, but what’s up with showing hair? My hair is longer than many women’s, and I ain’t transgendered. Should I cover my hair when using the public loo?
You didn’t understand. Some women aren’t allowed to show their hair to male so transgender women are male as well therefore people who were BORN as a female would not be able to fix their clothes and etc due to a male (transwomen) being in the loo
Where is that? Only women i am aware of that have to cover their hair are Orthodox Jews, nuns, and some devoted Muslimas, but those are all for an Abrahamic faith, so probably not transgender. Are You saying male transwomen going into the ladies toilet? I find that messed-up, and quite disgusting, but not for hair, but for genitalia and bums.
Smh my question was do you think there should be a sep bathroom for transgender women instead of going into the female bathroom as they’re males even though they’ve undergone surgery
possibly a private toilet for anyone that doesn't fir the female/male or is uncomfortable that there is some male lurker that is the women's bathroom. Unfortunately, the burden of the cost of putting one or more of those bathrooms in will be the responsibility of the property owner, and it would not be cheap to do. And would they actually use them, or just go in the one that they think they are. How could you enforce it?
No! They already have single-person bathrooms. Let them use that, since they're less than 1% of the population anyway. And if those aren't available, then they can "pretend" to not be crazy and just go in the bathroom that matches their born anatomy.
I don't think they need separate toilets or anything extra built for them. Just use the ones in the single-person bathrooms. Society doesn't revolve around less than 1% of crazy people out there, nor should anyone get to "demand" anything from society at large.
@BUTIMRIGHTTHO a mental illness has nothing to do with race, therefore if you can't comprehend science you should have a separate porta potty. Nice try tho, typical liberal move trying to mix the color of a human with a mental mind state hahahaha
A ''transgender'' 'identifies' (sic!) as a woman or as a man. Where's the problem? I still only count two genders. The third set of toilets then can only be for: ... attention seekers.
Did you not read the description? Even though they changed their genders they were still born as a male and some women are still uncomfortable around men
I did read it. But I'll NOT grant extra rights to some disturbed minds. Myself, I can pee or poo where ever I need to. My ''company'' there is irrelevant. If THEY have a ''problem'' ... well: it's not mine :)
@DermalPunch hahaha... I suppose that's true for the most part. I don't go to the girls room, just isn't done. Doesn't excite me in any way to see a woman walk into the men's room either. I just think waaaay too much is made of this. You gonna sit in your own private stall with a door anyway so...
I hope u know LA where this happen and if u looked closely was a unisex bathroom lol most public bathrooms especially in LA & all Stater Bros to be exact are unisex lolol. Whittier = LA area incase u didn't know.
@Fuentes You realize that it's not that bathrooms that are the problem right, it's sexual predators and the culture that surrounds rape culture. www.oregonlive.com/.../...t_hood_community_co.html here is an example of a man who abused 3 underage victims and only got 30 days in jail.
Ofc due to liberal laws & liberals who want genderless bathrooms it's your guys fault thesse creeps are allowed to keep repeating their behaviour & Oregon is filled eith those sjws.
You guy's don't even realize when you vote one clown rule into affect all of the clown world starts showing its face. And these will remain the affects of it everytime liberals choose to lessen crimes & vote for genderless stuff. So to protect the kids from the massive amount of creeps bathrooms should remain by gender, yes creeps will still roam but it won't be in sickening numbers since liberals love to let criminals roam.
@Fuentes so it’s my fault that people chose to break the law and assault me? ….. wow you’d thing you’d want to fix the issue instead of victim blaming… sad
@Fuentes you realize that I was 17 when that happened, I worked with that man, saw him all the time and was even subpoenaed to testify against him in front of a grand jury, and you want to blame the children he assaulted because “ your guys fault thesse creeps are allowed to keep repeating their behaviour”….. not the fact that you’d rather victim blame literal children instead of holding a predator accountable for his actions…
You didn't say anything about anything happen to you personally. I clearly said it was liberals fault and your fault for voting for the leftist not for whatever did happen to you, which was never even brought up , so I'm not sure if you had a conversation with yourself at some point.
You also say you been through everything and done everything so I don't know if that's even true but at the same time if it did, that's fucked up and you should be agaisnt democrats lowering sentences and letting them out.
The issue is an easy fix actually, stop voting left and let the conservatives control the courts again and make harsh sentences for creeps that is clearly the fix and gas been a violent offender should not be allowed bail or to be back on the streets at all. But today that is what happens after the post you showed me. And whose fault is that it is the democrats for lighting sentences it's not the conservatives watch TV or go on YouTube you will see them the democrats doing that bs.
@Fuentes and I said it’s the fault of the predators that commit the crimes but your so obsessed with blaming the victims you can’t see past your nose… which is great but you’d be singing a different tune if it were you
I think your smoking something, I never said anything about the victims I clearly said democrats who are voting towards laws and lesser sentences and turning things into misdemeanors instead of felonies so the a sick creep won't do any time in jail.
You just said yourself and posted to me that after 3 months a guy who tormented three children has been released. So do you know why he got released due to SJWS and liberals changing the law system that is causing monsters like that to get out.
You said it needs to be fixed, the FIX is stop voting in democrats. Like Gavin Newsom who lowered laws for pedophiles to avoid jail time & then you got the judges in Texas who let out criminals on bail and then go out and shoot and kill more people. Violent offenders being released from jail and prison. Illinois need "purge" law where now crime is just ok and it's on the citizen to make the design to defend themselves but if they do, they can go to prison for murder. The Liberal Mayor in Chicago who got passed CPD can't chase criminals in foot chases & she lost most of her Police force with the dumb rules she's implemented. Yet Chicago has a high murder and crime rate.
More Police, more Hard time on these criminals and the crimes will go down. But these democrats who yell and scream no borders and no crime punishments and no guns and no laws, we'll more sicko and monsters get to roam the street. If you can't understand my English I suggest you get Google translate.
Okay now let's all have boundaries for ourselves. This conversation is just no good. Love yourself enough to stop. Hold yourself accountable.
Just throw a security guard with pepper spray in the restroom and have a camera on her/him standing at the enter way and problem solved. He/her can see outside the stalls and know who is all in there. No crimes like rape can happen. IF the guard leaves from camera view, for more than 10 seconds, he has to push a button that tells the store something is wrong.
That's a good solution that holds everyone accountable and provides jobs. Now if you disagree that is fine but know I'm muting this post so I won't know what you've said. I never read responses anyway.
I swear you don't live in the real world, there is only way to charge creeps which sets the examples for other creeps to not act out the same. Blaming a sicko is not going to stop him or others from doing criminal acts. Their must be laws that deter those & separation between genders and stop pretending that everyone in the world is sane when that's simply not true at all and that everyone in the same gender is the same which is scientifically not true. Stop the clown world thought process & lock these guys up and throw away the key.
Sounds like a waste of money. They can just use the disabled bathroom if they're unsure.
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For communal restrooms, there should be one for males and one for females. For single-occupancy restrooms, it's obvious. But no special restrooms for mental illnesses
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