What would you say to someone you are fed up with his nationalism?

[Anonymous]

He keeps telling proverbs, recipes, movies, history etc. of his own nation. He thinks he's so cool. Tired of hearing the same things every day.

[sheenagwapa]

is this your boyfriend? because if he is your boyfriend then it's very easy to say i don't like the topic or you can simply change the topic.


it's very common to have different interests. in my hpuse my sister keep talkinh about lands i keep hearing square meter i don't like it, my ex keep talkinh about cars and how the engine worke and models i don't like it, me on the other hand kerp talking about beauty and showbiz news and western lifestyle.


we just all smile at each other because we three hang out often and each one of us keep changinh the topic


but when i want something a favor i brinh up their fave topic to make them feel good. so yeah you can use their fave topic to your advantage. i don't think it's a crime

[Asker]

No, he's my co-worker. He is proud of his ethnicity, so he constantly talks about it. So he is a stupid nationalist. I want to warn him without being rude, but in a way that would embarrass him for this nonsense.

[kespethdude]

Contact HR then, I'm pretty sure he is in violation of the right to a safe work environment. And if they don't want to do anything about it, then quit and tell others to boycott that company.

[kespethdude]

You don't. That person is too toxic to maintain any form of contact with. No contact is the only option. If you are forced to live with that person, then I don't know what else to tell you. Same with all narcissists, and yes, all nationalists ARE narcissists.

[boggboss]

Just stop talking to them then lol

[joeldalton]

Why should he have to change to appease you?

[Asker]

Did you think I was trying to change him? Lol... Every person should know that they should shut up about things nobody cares about. This does not mean that you will change yourself for someone.

[joeldalton]

Just because you don’t care doesn’t mean no one does.

[Asker]

It bothers people, it's that simple. Also, why are you so emotional to be angry with someone you don't know?

[joeldalton]

Why do you assume anger? Lol.

[kespethdude]

Because she has to deal with a belly rubber like you. Get the hell off my Internet!

[kespethdude]

lol too late, he already got the banhammer.