Would you sign a contract knowing that if your partner broke the contract, he would take your most valuable assets? Isn't that the situation men face?

[Adaeva]

Fantastic finish makes Alysa Liu, 13, youngest US skating champion

In the USA, when a woman files for divorce 90 percent of the time she takes her husband's most valuable asset, his children.

Alysa Liu is the youngest-ever U. S. women's national champion, having won her first title at age 13. She is also the youngest to win two senior national titles at age 14.

Liu is the oldest of five children; like her siblings (a sister, Selina, and triplets Joshua, Justin, and Julia), she was conceived through an anonymous egg donor and a surrogate mother. At the time of her birth, her father, an attorney, was married to Yan "Mary" Qingxin. However, when they divorced because she neither gave birth nor was she genetically related to the children, she could not take Liu’s father most valuable asset.

In the USA, if men want children and if they are wealthy enough to afford it, to prevent losing their children, should they select anonymous egg donors surrogate mothers to have children?

[abc3643]

It's a situation all people may face as well.

Look, when it comes to love, a prenup indicates that you don't love someone, pure and simple.

When you love someone - really love them - you'd sacrifice your life for them without question and do whatever you could to make sure they are OK. Always. You put them above you.

When you are asked to sign a prenup,

1) they put themselves above you. Furthermore,

2) that indicates that they don't trust you or

3) to trust themselves to be smart about making a decision. They need "insurance" and insurance is not commitment.

Every single one of those 3 things is a red flag for marriage.

So, never sign a prenup because that person is telling you they don't love you, love themselves more than you, and aren't fully committed.

Anyone who disagrees has never been in real love and doesn't understand the feeling.

[Lliam]

Well said, sir. 100%

[EaterPeter]

I won't and you are right

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for MHO!

[NostalgiaSenpi]

In the USA, if men want children and if they are wealthy enough to afford it, to prevent losing their children, should they select anonymous egg donors surrogate mothers to have children?

No. They should vet the person they're going to marry and make damn well sure that both parties can work together and not become just another notch in the divorce belt. Plenty of marriages succeed.

[Adaeva]

Would you put all your money in an investment firm it their was a 40% chance they would go broke and you would lose all your money?

[PointTaken]

Seems like some do that. I lost everything a couple times but not because of the divorce. It was because of how they were. I won't be losing again.

[Adaeva]

How can you be certain?

[PointTaken]

I could do a prenuptial agreement if I get married again. That will ensure I don't lose it all.

[Adaeva]

That should work unless this happens: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwHG8US6YFo

[PointTaken]

Wow.

[Lliam]

Holy crap! I feel sorry for that gullible woman who signed that prenup. And I hope she gets half of that guy's shit. Because he is an ass hole.

[slatyb]

No, it's not. Property owned before the marriage is not subject to division on divorce. Earned income during the marriage is generally a joint asset and will be divided.

[MementoMori777]

That's why I believe legal marriage isn't the way to go, I'll stay with a girl forever, and throw a wedding but not on documents.

[Anonymous]

How sad is it that this is what men face in the US today? This is just one of the ways in which modern women are destroying marriage and family.