What is happening to my daughter?

[Tower78]

Hello! I am a straight male.


I am a 38 year old family man with a nice wife and 3 good kids.


Please be friendly to me here on GirlsAskGuys. I don't want enemies. I only want friends.


Now back to the real topic of this post of mine.


My daughter is in 1st year highschool.


But here is what's confusing:


Almost all highschool students are ganging up on my daughter when it comes to brutally beating her up.


They break her things, spit on her, put dirt on her food, hatefully insult her, and exclude her in everything.


They also spread false information about her being a whore, a thief, and a serial killer. They seem to do this in order for other students to fear and hate her to the point that no students would want to have anything to do with her.


My daughter wants to join the highschool's gymnastics club but she said to me that everybody in the gymnastics club hates her. I don't know why.


What is happening? I don't understand why this is happening.

[Anonymous]

she's no friends and no one to stick up for her. Young kids love to target others because it makes them feel better about themselves especially young girls.

I went through this in school in England, bullied because I'm Irish short, ginger, a virgin etc and all sorts of rumours spread, cyber bullied. Eventually I got pushed until I cracked one of the fat bullies with a wooden chair. All of a sudden the school gave a crap and I got suspended and investigated by the police.

[Tower78]

Good for you!

Continue fighting for your rights and dignity!

[DizzyDesii]

I truly dont think she's the issue. I went through this exact same thing in 10th grade when female classmates showed their true colors. It took a few months to die down sadly

[Tower78]

How exactly did you deal with this?

[DizzyDesii]

I honestly just dodged them and didn't eat in the cafeteria nor go to recess. I hid out in the library or counselors office outside of class. And in class I sat close to the teacher. I stopped using public bathrooms in general but made sure to stop going to the restroom alone because they were always waiting to gang up on me. It was 2 whole grades of girls trying to jump me every day for 3 months or so. After Christmas break, they grew bored of bullying me

[Anonymous]

No clue but the potential for a redemption arc here seems remote, you should change schools or home school her.

You should also make formal complaints to literally everyone at every level that you can complain to.

Some of these things are criminal acts and so you should be making police reports etc.

[richardcory]

That is truly awful. Do you know what they are saying about her. Not that those things are at all true, but maybe it would help to know what they think is true.

[Tower78]

She said to me that they call her things such as bitch, skank, psycho, worthless, ugly bitch, hag, subhuman worm, etc. and I really do not know why these kids say these things to her.

[richardcory]

Weird. Does she have any idea? Its NOT fault at all, just trying to understand. Sometimes though mob-rule, rules in school. Which I had a helpful suggestion, but I don't

[ChillaxingLove]

I would sit down and talk with her and gain more information about the situation to figure out why. It’s probably some type bullying, kids now these days are so cruel and the net just makes that much easier to bully

[exitseven]

Damn that's tough. I have to say that i don't think there is a way to gt the other kids in school to like her no , atter what she does. Maybe you should look into sending her to a private school.

[MementoMori777]

Rumors turned people against her, I think you should switch ehr school

[Tower78]

This is just sad. I hate the fucking maggots that spread those fucking rumours.

[MementoMori777]

Yea and the saddest part is that it's all most likely cause they had a crush on her, for some reason it's a common thing for bullies of the opposite sex to bully the person they crush on, I wish your daughter the best bro, but if you are going to do something that will be effective for her mental health, pull her out of that school and switch her to another, there's no reason why she should be going through all that just cause some little boogery little piece of shit can't express his emotions.

[Iron_Man]

Report it to the principal have a family meeting and go to the school

[Nikki1989]

Discuss this with the school.

[Fuentes]

Switch her schools if stuff like that is happening