Why do men get so much hate for telling the truth or having a preference?

There was a pink user who asked a question about why she constantly gets rejected by men. The overwhelming response was that she looked too masculine, too much like a man or similar. All of the pink responses were shaming the male responses for telling the truth. Or insulting the men for having a preference.
Why do men get so much hate for telling the truth or having a preference?
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