Why are men so weird and not honest?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy i been dating hit it off really well. We talk almost everyday but yesterday i had a super long day and didn’t text him the whole entire day cause i was very exhausted and busy. Mind you the night before that i stayed over his house like I usually do. So today he sent me a text asking me if i was “ok” i said yes i just been super busy i hope all is well and he never replied wtf is going on?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I hate when guys do petty stuff like that! Some dudes get so sensitive if you don't text em back right away, even though they KNOW life gets busy sometimes. He's probably just buggin' over nothing.

I'd be like "Really dude? I told you I had a long day, you gonna ignore me now cause I wasn't glued to my phone? We all have lives outside this." Some validation that you care would go a long way, but drama can wait until you see each other again in my opinion.

Guys get weird when they start feeling insecure for no reason. Like bro, you JUST saw me last night? Chill. Don't sweat it too much - watch him come crawling back all apologetic by tomorrow anyway tryna play it off like nothing happened lol.

If he keeps pouting for attention though, that's a red flag. Real ones trust the vibe and don't get petty over small stuff. You didn't do anything wrong sis! His weird moods shouldn't stress you. Just drop it til he pulls his head out his ass. You deserve better than games, for sure.

[spartan55]

Dude how is he 'pouting for attention'? He checked on her, she said she was busy, so he respected that and gave her some space. No she's freaking out, nice double standard. If someone pulls the "I'm busy/I was busy" card I let them contact me next.

[spartan55]

So it's okay if you barely text him all day, but if he doesn't respond promptly for you it's "wtf"? God you sound like a delight. 🙄

[wolfcat87]

He wanted to know what was going on like a normal person. You told him that you've been super busy, so he's respecting that you're too busy for him and need space... Poor man can't win.

[BarryLiverstone]

He checked in to see if you are ok. You said you are so he doesn’t need to text beyond that

[IronPhoenix]

Your over thinking it.

Perhaps he is busy too.

[sirderpsalot123]

Are you the only allowed to be busy? At least he cared enough to check on you.

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't see how this makes him or men "weird" and "not honest"

[jahaims]

Most people are weird and not honest