Is it "the system" or "black women/moms" or "themselves" that make it harder for black men to be there for there kids?

[WilliamPamer446]

[ManOnFire]

This is unfortunately a case where I have to say our black men are making it harder for them to be there for their kids. Do not get me wrong, the system is still set up for black people to fail, or face worse consequences when they do, but there is still personal responsibility we have to take for our own actions/lifestyles/etc.

Black men don't have to choose a life of getting into stuff, taking advantage of our black women and knocking them up, messing around on the streets, and trying to live life according to the rap and hip hop artists they worship. But unfortunately a lot of black men do. And it's to the point now where many see the life of vice as glamorous and cool, so they don't want to change it... but then get angry when it hurts them and ends up putting them in a disadvantage.

Black women are not perfect either and they too have a lot of their own issues they need to work on as well. But responsibility begins with the individual. If our black men would stop aspiring for streetdom, easy cash, and a rap life, and start focusing differently, then our kids and communities would be so much healthier.

[inhua]

the gynocentric laws make it harder for black men to be with their kids. divorce is mostly initiated by women and the rewards from divorce like alimony and child support incentivizes and enables certain bad behaviors in women such as greed, disrespect, impatience, intolerance, power abuse, unrealistic standards etc.

[DextroShade]

Women initiate 80% of break ups and in the black community a minority of men father the majority of children i. e. Pookie and RayRay with multiple baby mommas so it's the women's fault.

[WilliamPamer446]

Girls are bad

[Meropatrick]

Its the system 100 percent. Poverty and ignorance leading to more Poverty and ignorance.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps it is the values (or lack of values) taught and perpetuated by black culture.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

The system

[Drewtate]

Bad choices

[Anonymous]

The Jews

[Opinion Owner]

but wait, mommy.

[Opinion Owner]

they control the Illuminati