Have you ever been bullied for being skinny/slender/slim?

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

Before I hit puberty I was the tall, thin girl and most kids picked on me for it. Well the tall part I got bullied really bad. I was thin and I got bullied for it too but in middle school, IT…. WAS….. HORRIBLE!! Girls most likely bullied me in 7th grade! I was about 5’10 and under 165lbs. I got called a lot of ugly names for being tall and thin. These three heavy set girls who were also tall but not as tall as me used to beat me up and scream at me for making them feel bad for being thick and chubby. I started to gain weight when I hit puberty at age 13 (height 5’11” ) and I still got bullied but then I still got made fun of for being all and boys wanted to fight me. They didn’t bully me when I ballooned go 252lbs on 11th grade. I’ve been 6’0” since I was 15 or 16. I’m not 212lbs and losing weight. Man most people hate slim/thin people.

[ohsheeT]

Hey I'm so sorry what you have gone through how they changed your destiny and how you allowed them to do that.. by not having somebody in your life that you can talk to about it to get it to stop

I hope you can let it all go someday soon because that's not who you were supposed to be.
But for some reason if you can't seem to shake it then what you need to do is embrace it and hold on tight to it and you do something a different way
You start an anti-bullying organization and you get licensed and you go to schools and you speak from your heart and at the same time you speak from your heart you show those kids and you tell those kids who you were but then you show them who you are now.
Show them straight you show them power you show them how to succeed and become the person you're supposed to become

Because I guarantee you there are kids right now going to the same thing that you're going through

If you walk into a school right now and you seen some girl getting picked on by three other girls would you walk up would you stop it or would you just Walk on by

When I was in high school there was a kid that lived down the street from me he was really kind of slow he used to get teased a lot and one day I was walking through the hallways at school and I saw some big kid had this other kid up against the wall and all these other kids were yelling kick his ass kick his ass I didn't think anything of that I walked by and as I walk by glance over and it was the kid that live down the street from me I took probably about five more steps and I said if I let this go on I'm just as guilty as a kid beating him up so I turned back around I grabbed a hold of the guy that was beaten Jr up and I told him if you ever texted me and I'd kick his ass so his friends started picking on Jr and they started picking on all Jr's friends it was like five or six of them slow kids and all hung out together well I'll tell you something I became best friend with all of them are they became my best friend because I stuck up for all of them because it's b******* that is b u l l s h i t

And since you've been through this and you have the knowledge of it you have the power to make a difference there are girls and boys out there right now that you can make a difference in their life I will guarantee you those three bully girls I guarantee you that probably one or two of them are alcoholics one of them is probably dead are close to it they hate themselves they always did hate themselves that's the reason why they did what they did and because they were all followers they thought they were Queen all Ebola I guarantee it right now that you are happier than they are and that's the way it should be but I hope you can figure something out to help people through this.

And listen no matter what you go through in life don't stand there and take it if it's wrong stand up to it because usually the people that are doing it are pussies anyway they hate themselves and they do it because that's what has happened to them don't stand for any of that crap stand up and fight I would rather get my ass beat for sticking up for myself then I would just allow something to happen to me

I guarantee it that doesn't mean you're going to get your butt kicked you don't know the strength that you have inside of you until you get pushed into a corner I guarantee it you would have slept one of those girls in the mouth they would have stopped

I hope you read this carefully because I'm sure I was wrong in a couple places for saying what I said but it just pisses me off that there are still bullies out there and they're not being stopped you could be that person get your power back get your love back for yourself help others in a way that nobody helps you

[AmazonChick171]

Yes and it was horrible. Even though I developed and got curves, I still get shit for being slender but you can’t please everyone. People will always have something to say no matter what you do, say or what you look like. Their opinions shouldn’t like you and plus not everyone will like you. Some people may hate you for your body size because they’re jealous. Sounds harsh but that’s the facts of life.

[MemeSupreme]

yes, i'm 5'10 and 120 lbs and used to be skinnier, so i've definitely experienced it. i never got bullied JUST for it in high school but it was like one of the things they targeted.

it's pretty annoying when someone comments on it bc it just turns you off. if its a friend making jokes then i'll rebuttal back laughing it off as long as its not excessive, but strangers doing it? it pisses me off

[Decoded93]

I have an ex that was really thin and she always complained about it and wanted to have a bigger but and boobs and what not, and I guess I never knew how much pressure women deal with when people don't agree with their body shape

[MemeSupreme]

@Decoded93 well we have the pressure put on us since we're little like I don't know if you've heard any stories about ballet, but a lot of instructors will comment on girls bodies even as a child if they're bloated or not skinny enough. thats just one example

[Decoded93]

Yeah my ex was a dancer so that makes sense! She didn't do ballet though, and she was super gorgeous so I never understood why she wanted to change

[MemeSupreme]

@Decoded93 we all want what we dont have lol

[Decoded93]

Well I helped her get a bigger but through working out and eating more, and her boobs got bigger too! So she got it, but honestly I think she looked just as good either way

[MemeSupreme]

that's awesome. you straight up husband material for that lmfao you got her healthier and more confident

[Decoded93]

Lol thank you! She really likes it now and has been getting a lot of attention for it!

[MementoMori777]

you can't satisfy everyone

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

I know that but what does that have to do with being bullied? I got bullied and people just think I should just get over it and it will prepare me for life.

[MementoMori777]

well its not fair but you should get over it because what they say doesn't make it true, you know the truth, you know how you are so you should honestly let it go in one ear and out the other

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

It doesn’t even matter, I’m not thin anymore and when I gained weight it got worse. You’re so cold hearted. I’ll never get over how people treated me. I can’t bottle in my feelings. It does no good at all.

[MementoMori777]

i try not to be cold hearted, you want a solution that works but i wouldn't recommend? beat the fuck out of them, til they bleed, them seeing blood mentally shows them reality, they grow fear and leave you alone, fear works, its the cold truth

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

Thank you ☺️

[MementoMori777]

np 🙂💯

[CuriousDalia]

A big YES 🤣

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

I never understood why thin people get bullied so bad. I got told to eat more when I was thin.

[CuriousDalia]

My aunts and uncles always tells me to eat whenever I see them I hate it and usually guys are unattracted to me because I'm skinny and don't have big curves 🙃

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

That’s horrible I’m so sorry. I’ve had some boys tell me they would never date a skinny girl especially a tall one that looks like an ugly scarecrow. So hurtful. Curvy girls get the praise

[CuriousDalia]

I'm sorry you've experienced it too it sucks 🙃

[Anonymous]

Nope