Is normal to be scare of speaking against radical feminism?

[Anonymous]

I never agreed with their extreme ideas. I was outspoken before but don't think I want to mess with them anymore. Just last week, I received a call from my neighbor early in the morning (it was 5:20 am) telling me to get down quick because my car has been set on fire. The next day I get a nasty message send on my FB messenger (the person had a fake profile) stating ''You stupid *****, yes I destroyed your car. Keep on defending our oppressors and you'll see the consequences. I hope that shuts you up.''

Good news is they were able to locate that crazy woman. She got arrested for vandalism and making threats. Though I still have no idea how she found my address and knew it was my car. Needless to say, I'm literally creeped out. Is it normal to really be scare of speaking against them? I feel terrible for the unfairness happening but it's like I can't do anything.

I still don't have a car to go to work. I have to get up earlier and pay for transportation. I have no coverage for a rental vehicle.

[NamerOfStars]

If you're paying attention. Look what happened to Erin Pizzey.

Zealots are always dangerous.

[Lionman95]

Yes it´s also scary to move against a group of people especially if you´re alone.

[Asker]

It really sucks. You end up feeling so powerless to point out something that's really wrong.

[Lionman95]

I feel you it´s a bold move. Maybe it would help if you find people that agree with you and help you with it so you´re not longer alone.

[MementoMori777]

It just means you aren't one of the toxic ones no lie

[Asker]

I've never felt so overwhelmed and powerless after what happened. The level of hatred in that woman's actions towards my car and message was unbelievable.
For my own safety, I won't ever speak against them ever again.

[MementoMori777]

Well it's not like there's much we can do anyways but I agree with you tho 🙂💯

[Asker]

I think having my 14 year-old baby brother makes me more aware of it. I was 8 when he was born (for me it's like yesterday; the little baby I used to hold and comfort whenever he used to cry... suddenly time flew fast and he's now a teen) and I can't imagine anyone hurting him. If a crazy girl like that ever hurts him and him being the sweet boy he is; he won't do anything but I will.

[MementoMori777]

Well hopefully he find a good girl anon and he have a good chance in love, it's a good thing it's instinctively unattractive for a woman to act all feminazi, I think he will be okay

[OddBeMe]

Not sure why crazy people are always spotlighted as the spokesperson for feminism. Lol

[Anonymous]

It is pretty scary at first but you get used to it.

[richardcory]

Extremists of all varieties are bad.

[slatyb]

Which extreme ideas?

[Asker]

They were defending a woman having an abortion whenever she feels like it without even informing the boyfriend or husband because of the ''my body, my choice'' thing, trying to get me to agree that it was unfair for Aileen Wurnos to get the death penalty because she had a horrible upbringing (fuck that; several people raised in abusive households don't go on a killing spree) and to have compassion for her, they were in favor of monetary incentive if a long-term relationship doesn't work out (basically stealing a man's hard working money; another low life theft giving the rest of us a bad name) and a young woman that wants to life a traditional lifestyle was criticized and told that she should experience several relationships first.

[Asker]

I have a 14 year-old baby brother and really hope he never has to encounter one of those crazy girls out there.

[slatyb]

"They were defending a woman having an abortion whenever she feels like it without even informing the boyfriend or husband because of the ''my body, my choice'' thing, "

It is her body and her choice. It could be dangerous for a women to inform certain men of that choice.

[Asker]

Well yes I understand it's her body and her choice. It's the attitude and tone in their wording though and the story they told. It was about a normal, loving couple whom were going to have a child. The woman suddenly decides she's not really ready to be a mother at just 22 years old, lies to her then boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) that she's going shopping for baby items but secretly gets the abortion done. The boyfriend is unware of what she did and was happy, looking forward to start a family.
When she admitted to that, he broke up with her, blocked her and hasn't spoken to her in years. This is way different than if a woman had a secret abortion because the man is abusive, she's really scared of him or she's in dangered. That wasn't the case though.

[slatyb]

She was very young. She could have told him. She didn't have to. Maybe she feared the consequences. You weren't there.