You are like most women actually. However a good portion of that majority also want to continue acting they way they did when they were single and receive the attention and compliments they once got and loved.
Little bit of a secret. Us guys don’t want to be with a girlfriend that seeks validation from men.
And if a man does? He probably has a weird fetish, or is cheating on you.
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From my observations, it seems a lot of men want a woman that's both. They want a woman who will do everything for them that a traditional woman does, but she is also out there earning money. They want the best of both worlds. A traditional type woman without having to be a traditional man.
That's partly because of economic reality. When women's lib became mainstream, it led to a doubling of the workforce. Anyone who knows basic economics remembers the supply/demand curve. An increase in supply that isn't matched by an equal increase in demand lowers prices. So wages have stagnated over the last several decades and it's harder than ever to raise a family on a single income. Of course, feminism isn't the only cause of wage stagnation, there's other factors too like mass immigration, but it's the low incomes that have started to require women to earn an income as well.
Most men don't but most men can't afford to support a stay at home wife. I think a wife should work unless she's staying at home with the kids, I wouldn't want daycare raising my kids. I also wouldn't want my wife fucking the mailman while I'm at work.
I think the traditional family is getting phased out more as women are becoming more independent. Some people do try to mix the two value systems though I’ve seen it with my family where both the man and the woman work, while the both retain some of the traditional values; for example the woman still cooks while the man takes out the trash or fixes the car. It’s not a complete traditional roles but they kinda fulfill it when they can.
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men hate any women that they can't control. so if anything, i guess they'd like you since traditional women are controlled with no jobs, stay at home all day, and pop out kids. that's all those men who go after women like that are after. control.
you are experiencing men laughing because it's 2023 and it's impossible to have a stay at home mom in this economy. both need to be working now.
I'm pretty sure that you can find men who like "traditional" women. There are many on GAG who would be happy to be with a woman like you. Perhaps, it's just the place you are. Maybe it would be different if you lived in another country.
If men disliked traditional women then the passport trend would not be present and a majority of women wouldn't be going on social media to criticize or complain about it. Overall though, if your partner loves you for the person you are then there is nothing to worry much about.
Speaking for myself. I don't like people or to be with a woman that has a sheep mentality of society and can't think for themselves and set their own vaules as a person but rather let society dictate to them.
Having kids is a normal and natural function of humans, so their nothing traditional about that, it's just nature.
There is a growing market for women like you…especially here in North America. Problem is, men need to step up to the plate if they want a trad women and men are still interested in taking easy sex x. x women are the gatekeepers of sex and there’s a reason women are supposed to shame eachother into not being sluts
Most men can't afford a "traditional housewife". By the way many of us hate 9-5 jobs too, but nobody cares if we like or are "fulfilled" by our job. Just keep that paycheck coming in.
Well, since you are from Southern Europe, I can’t comment on the men there as I’ve never visited, but regardless I’d be happy to date a traditional woman.
Especially if she were Italian or Spanish. Y’all are really beautiful. Just saying ❤️
So yeah, to have a traditional woman from Southern Europe does sound pretty good to me at least.
Judging by the comment's men love traditional women but want to be irresponsible at the same time. I see that the dating and looking for a husband/ or wife is harder than ever. The bigger issues of life go unaddressed and not even discussed before marriage which I have witnessed. Guys want a traditional woman but won't admit it.
There are men who want what you want, it's just that the majority of people are influenced by popular culture which is all about short-term pleasure seeking.
In general, despite what "bro" influencers would have you believe, it's not most mens preference. Luckily, if you're upfront (and steadfast/consistent) with what you want, the guys who aren't interested in a traditional arrangement will self sort. "Wait? Until marriage? Nah, i'm out"
If you're getting laughed at, it's probably them being dicks. Or laughing at the "traditional' term. As many who use that term try to say that "modern" women therefore lack something.
You're a girl from gold and these bugs who are laughing at you are just the garbage of this society... Your traits are amazing and if someday i find the one for me, she must have these traits... Be proud of yourself!
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You are like most women actually. However a good portion of that majority also want to continue acting they way they did when they were single and receive the attention and compliments they once got and loved.
Little bit of a secret. Us guys don’t want to be with a girlfriend that seeks validation from men.
And if a man does? He probably has a weird fetish, or is cheating on you.
From my observations, it seems a lot of men want a woman that's both. They want a woman who will do everything for them that a traditional woman does, but she is also out there earning money. They want the best of both worlds. A traditional type woman without having to be a traditional man.
That's partly because of economic reality. When women's lib became mainstream, it led to a doubling of the workforce. Anyone who knows basic economics remembers the supply/demand curve. An increase in supply that isn't matched by an equal increase in demand lowers prices.
So wages have stagnated over the last several decades and it's harder than ever to raise a family on a single income.
Of course, feminism isn't the only cause of wage stagnation, there's other factors too like mass immigration, but it's the low incomes that have started to require women to earn an income as well.
@stepyo99
it's rather simple logic. Of course, people tend not to understand things they don't want to understand.
Most men don't but most men can't afford to support a stay at home wife. I think a wife should work unless she's staying at home with the kids, I wouldn't want daycare raising my kids. I also wouldn't want my wife fucking the mailman while I'm at work.
I think the traditional family is getting phased out more as women are becoming more independent. Some people do try to mix the two value systems though I’ve seen it with my family where both the man and the woman work, while the both retain some of the traditional values; for example the woman still cooks while the man takes out the trash or fixes the car. It’s not a complete traditional roles but they kinda fulfill it when they can.
men hate any women that they can't control. so if anything, i guess they'd like you since traditional women are controlled with no jobs, stay at home all day, and pop out kids. that's all those men who go after women like that are after. control.
you are experiencing men laughing because it's 2023 and it's impossible to have a stay at home mom in this economy. both need to be working now.
I'm pretty sure that you can find men who like "traditional" women. There are many on GAG who would be happy to be with a woman like you.
Perhaps, it's just the place you are. Maybe it would be different if you lived in another country.
If men disliked traditional women then the passport trend would not be present and a majority of women wouldn't be going on social media to criticize or complain about it. Overall though, if your partner loves you for the person you are then there is nothing to worry much about.
Speaking for myself. I don't like people or to be with a woman that has a sheep mentality of society and can't think for themselves and set their own vaules as a person but rather let society dictate to them.
Having kids is a normal and natural function of humans, so their nothing traditional about that, it's just nature.
There is a growing market for women like you…especially here in North America. Problem is, men need to step up to the plate if they want a trad women and men are still interested in taking easy sex x. x women are the gatekeepers of sex and there’s a reason women are supposed to shame eachother into not being sluts
Most men can't afford a "traditional housewife". By the way many of us hate 9-5 jobs too, but nobody cares if we like or are "fulfilled" by our job. Just keep that paycheck coming in.
Well, since you are from Southern Europe, I can’t comment on the men there as I’ve never visited, but regardless I’d be happy to date a traditional woman.
Especially if she were Italian or Spanish. Y’all are really beautiful. Just saying ❤️
So yeah, to have a traditional woman from Southern Europe does sound pretty good to me at least.
Judging by the comment's men love traditional women but want to be irresponsible at the same time. I see that the dating and looking for a husband/ or wife is harder than ever. The bigger issues of life go unaddressed and not even discussed before marriage which I have witnessed. Guys want a traditional woman but won't admit it.
You are not a "traditional" anything, it's why you're getting laughed at.
You are being an entitled brat and not presenting anything a partner wold find worthwhile, while judging others.
There are men who want what you want, it's just that the majority of people are influenced by popular culture which is all about short-term pleasure seeking.
In general, despite what "bro" influencers would have you believe, it's not most mens preference. Luckily, if you're upfront (and steadfast/consistent) with what you want, the guys who aren't interested in a traditional arrangement will self sort. "Wait? Until marriage? Nah, i'm out"
If you're getting laughed at, it's probably them being dicks. Or laughing at the "traditional' term. As many who use that term try to say that "modern" women therefore lack something.
You're a girl from gold and these bugs who are laughing at you are just the garbage of this society...
Your traits are amazing and if someday i find the one for me, she must have these traits...
Be proud of yourself!
I noticed this too. Guys our age group no longer appreciate traditional woman they're all a bunch of mommas boy. I know from experience.
Most men love traditional women. We just lie to Feminists to get more pussy.
Yes, but I would never touch a Feminist, even if she was hot, even though most feminists are unattractive (which isn’t coincidence LOL)
We don't hate trad women at all. The non-trad women have spoilt it for the trads because we are doubtful there are any family oriented women left.