Why do people HAVE to take no as an answer?

[Anonymous]

Now I'm not saying that people should start raping people and all that, but, like, when it comes to asking someone out etc.. why should people just have to accept the answer of no?

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My mom was turned down by the same job over and over, because they just weren't hiring. But, she really wanted the job. One day they literally said "you know what, we're finally hiring, and we need someone on the spot, can you start today".. and she's like "yeah, def."

Sometimes, saying no, isn't the worst thing in the world. IF YOU REALLY WANT SOMETHING, GO FOR IT

[ProbablyClueless]

, the problem, is that it's really difficult to explain how off-putting and disgusting it feels to have sex with someone you don't really want to have sex with. When you don't accept no as an answer, you are pushing the person to do something they don't really want to do. And particularly with sex, that can have a lasting traumatic impact.

[_Maya_]

Yeah you should. Why do I or anyone else owe you a yes if we are not into you? Why should I be obligated to say yes just because you feel entitled to it? That is really messed up. Should you be forced to say yes to everything? Here is a great example. If a gay dude walks up to you and says let's go on a date and we will do it at my place then I guess by your logic you have to say yes because no isn't an acceptable answer anymore. You should just do it right? Yeah...

[Asker]

What if he paid me to

[_Maya_]

Nope. Because again by your logic you should just accept yes so why would he have to pay for something he should just get by asking?

[Cuminginside]

"What if he paid you?". I can't even today I'll Let the maya handle you.

[HelpfulWoman]

Congrats. @EmmaMary will be along with your troll award shortly.

[DarkLegacy]

Why her in particular.

[HelpfulWoman]

@DarkLegacy because its her shtick. If its a troll/troll question then she gives a troll award.

[DarkLegacy]

Oh right thanks.

[In_Trance]

This attitude is exactly the problem with the dating world.
If he or she says no, then fuck right off.

[Anonymous]

I agree that you should not have to accept a no when you ask a woman out, but what about gays or landwhales who treat guys as if they were women? Obviously there are differences between men and women, things like these are far worse for guys. If you ask out a guy and he says no, it means you should fuck off.

[DarkLegacy]

Im just gonna say i agree with you. Particularly when it come to women being hypocrites or only saying no because they have been influenced by other sources such as friends, media, feminists which is most women from our generation.

[_Maya_]

Lmao so if a gay dude propositions you that means you gotta say yes because apparently that is owed to him like us girls owe you a yes?

[DarkLegacy]

@_Maya_ Completely irrelevant, and you have ignored my points made above.

[_Maya_]

How is that irrelevant? You are saying that girls should just say yes. Why does the same no apply to guys? If a guy asks you out then you owe him a yes or you're a hypocrite. Which is it?

[DarkLegacy]

@_Maya_ Nope, im saying they are usually saying no for the wrong reasons, read what i put above and climb down from the high horse.

[_Maya_]

Stop dodging the point I made. Why is it that girls owe a yes regardless of your idiotic reasons and guys do not owe the same? Soooo then you owe gay dudes the same courtesy you hypocrite.

[DarkLegacy]

@_Maya_ You seen to have a thing about gay dudes forcing men, is it a fetish, and why don't you stop ignoring my points.

[_Maya_]

So wait... a gay dude forcing men is wrong but us being forced to sat yes isn't? Its not an obsession but a point you ignore. You're applying a double standard.

[DarkLegacy]

@_Maya_ Nope i am not

[_Maya_]

Alright so if you can't answer my first question then let's see if you can answer this or if you'll dodge it again. If a woman asks me out do I owe her a yes?

[DarkLegacy]

@_Maya_ Lol you are obsessed with forced gay sex aren't you. And you ignored all of my points

[_Maya_]

Why can't you ever answer the question? And you seem obsessed with it. I never mentioned sex. Not once in this conversation. You are the one bringing it up constantly.

[DarkLegacy]

@_Maya_ Other way round

[_Maya_]

Dude lol. YOU are the only one bringing up sex. I haven't once. 😆

[Cuminginside]

@_Maya_ Lady I'm only going to say this once You playing the gay card is a dangerous game. You walked right into the valley, "if the rule that you followed led you into this valley then what use is that rule? You should admit your situation there will be much more dignity in it."

[Anonymous]

if she's say no say ok and walk away but next time you see her grab her from the behind and do whatever you want with her

[Staximus]

Because fuck off means fuck off