Should people judge each other?

[Robertjo16]

Everyday i feel like people judge me for the clothes I wear or how poor i am. I see it and hear it happening to others as well. Do you think this is right?

[Constatine]

Nej! uhm No!

People should not judge and if they do stop judging , life would be better for everyone. People can only except other people when they don't judge. People would respect each other and let them life their own lives in their own ways

War will end , peace will be every where and love { in relationships } will be 99% pure

But mankind can't stop judging others. So people will always blame other people for being rich, poor , loving the same sex and other meaningless things.

[RavVid]

That would be the girls right?

If it helps, guys aren't going to judge you on this at all. We'll judge you but also appreciate and value you on different stuff.

I don't think it is right. Pre loved clothing seems to be big at the mo so develop your own style I'd suggest.

Intra sex female competition is pretty endemic and brutal so I don't think that is going to change soon. Quite possibly boys like you and they see you as a threat. Practice using your middle finger metaphorically.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It's not right to judge anyone. I always say if they are judging me, well at least they're leaving someone else alone, but judging is up to God. Were not the Judges it's sad, and I'm sorry this is happening to you also I might add when I was your age I did not have the best clothes and the best shoes my mom (late) did the best she could. We lived on welfare and food stamps. My sister and I were too young to get jobs because we were both in middle school.

[lightbulb27]

no, Bible is clear about not judging others. it can be an issue with immature kids and maybe self involved adults. but not mature people.

especially not good to judge when someone is poor.

that said, we can all improve and some criticism can be constructive if done right.

[Anonymous]

Of course. We do it all the time. Maybe you may not do it consciously but subconsciously it happens all the time. We get judged on whether I’d be good for a particular job or not. Women judge men based on how tall they are, how much money he makes, just the same as men judging women on their looks. We makes judgements a lot in the military as far as what we’re looking for. Whether that’s a new recruit or on a patrol observing people. Who looks suspicious? Who seems nervous? It happens all the time. We judge people on past behaviors a lot in the prison. I've worked in a lot of places. People judge others all the time. I’m sure if you met some dude who had 5 kids w 3 different women you’d look at him different than a dude who didn’t.

[DarkLegacy]

It is wrong and is a trend of moderns society. TV, celebrities and the media are to blame, people take too much notice of these things and allow it to creep into real life. Most of these celebrities lead a fake life for money, especially reality TV stars.

Social media has made it things worse. People should not be judged for their clothes, dress sense and physical appearance.

[Sparkie460]

Nobody has the right to judge anyone. You don't know what the other person is going through or has been through. Maybe they don't have designer clothes, but they have clothes. Their house may not be a mansion, but they have a home to go to.
We are all human and we all have hearts that can be broken. Everyone has feelings that can be hurt

[Anonymous]

Whether they should or not is kind of irrelevant. People will do it anyhow. You're young. As you get older you care less and less about people's judgements. Because at the end of the day you have to live your life, not them. So you'll start to realize thier little judgements don't mean squat.

[exitseven]

Yes, some people need to be judged.

Here come s the judge!

[strateguy632]

that is common in schools the rich kids buy "designer" clothing and ridicule the kids that can't afford the luxury.

however those are not about your essence. not about who you are.

is it right? it is awful.

[Sabretooth]

Everyone should practice good judgement skills... Especially your gender.

[Robertjo16]

I agree

[Sabretooth]

You shouldn't look down on people for situations that they control but you at the same time, we must be able to make wise choices concerning those that we associate with with. For females, standards a good but don't fall victim to a perfect gentlemen... It's usually a lie. I remember watching the case of Lacy Peterson on Dateline--the more glowing reviews I got about her husband -- the more I hated him and believed that he was the perp.

[Chthou95]

Everyone judges kid. We all do it. Its human nature and its not going to change. Most don't say it out loud but intrinsically you judge. Sometimes judgement is a good thing. Some things in life deserve to be judged

[jahaims]

People judge everything. That is how humans interact with reality. How the person acts after making the judgment is the important part.

[love_conquers_lust]

Yes. We do it all the time. That doesn’t mean we have to make our judgments known.

[Charliefretz329]

Judging is natural, essential even. The difference between intelligent sound judgements comes with wisdom and knowledge.

[AngryCarl2]

People are always making judgements about each other. Whether they "should" or not is largely irrelevant. It is human nature, and no one has yet found a way to change human nature. I hope this helps.

[TonyMetal___86]

I have personal opinions about others but do not judge them, only god can judge us...

[OddBeMe]

Can’t help it. We do. It’s like asking should people feel?

[shortster]

No, that is classist bs. Best to avoid people like that.

[jahaims]

How is forming an opinion or conclusion about a person classist? Please explain how you are able to interact with other people without forming an opinion or conclusion.
Judge: form an opinion or conclusion about.

[shortster]

Judging people to be poor based on the clothes that they wear is inherently classist. Not liking someone's outfit is normal; assuming that they are poor because of it isn't.

[jahaims]

Classist: treating someone unfairly or having negative opinions about them based on their social class ( economic and social position), especially because they are thought to be from a low social class.

You can treat someone fairly if you think they are poor. You can also have a positive opinion of a poor person. So that isn't inherently classist.

[shortster]

Did you read the question?

[jahaims]

I sure did. What part do you need help comprehending?

[shortster]

She was specifically asking about people judging her for being poor. That is as classist as you can get.

[jahaims]

You really can't follow a straight line from point A to point B? I can spell it out for you, but I am pretty sure you are too simple to comprehend, and that would be a waste of my effort.

[shortster]

If your only argument is to insult my intelligence. Then, no, I don't need it.

[jahaims]

Stating my opinions and reasoning isn't an insult. My argument has nothing to do with your lack of intelligence. My argument consisted of precisely stated points. You just can't follow.

[shortster]

Your previous two posts were specifically intended to insult me. And this last one barely goes beyond that.

[Joshydavid25]

Judging is just having an opinion, which every single thinking person does.. It's not so much about right, but it just is..

[jjj101010]

Some people should it’s literally their job. At a job interview ur judged, in a sports game ur judged, in a court ur judged so yeah people should judge others

[Jennz6]

The Bible says “Judge not”