Is it normal to not get along with my own gender?

[Anonymous]

I'm a female (obviously) but I find most others annoying and bimboish. I don't like to interact with them and can't relate. They're also mean and bullies, full of gossip, that's another reason I cut off contact

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I'm married by the way as well, and this applies to my inlaws and extended family

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And has anyone else ever felt this way

[Anonymous]

It's normal to not get along with some of them. And it's completely understandable as what you say is 100% true. But not ALL of them.

The fact that your not single anymore might have a lot to do with it. a lot of single women are this way. I listened to a woman post on here the other day complaining because a guy that her clique used to bully in high school can't stand her. And he ended up marrying a girl from her clique who was the ring leader of the clique. She went on to say how she wasn't a bully, she just went along with the ring leader. And said how stupid the guy was for not realizing who the ring leader really is. And that the ring leader has turned into Suzy homemaker. And that she acts like she cares about the guy. Now I don't know this ring leader woman is. Or even if she is an actual rung leader. But this woman posting has actual convinced herself that she's a good person. It's never even occurred to her that she might actually be the villain. What's very obvious either way is she responds with venom when she doesn't get her way. She thinks controlling people is the act of a normal person. Personally it sounds to me like the guy and her clique grew up and she didn't.

[IceCreamSandwich]

That can definitely happen. Most men I don't like hanging around because they're very pushy and loud, but women rarely act that way.

[Usi84833]

No I am the same way I noticed a lot of women are fake. I want to be around men.

[Asker]

I feel like most of them are still stuck in high school Era even women in their 50s and up lol

[Asker]

They can act so childish and ridiculous (my mother in law is big time)

[Usi84833]

Wow. Even 50s? You may be right.

I’ve had a job where I was surrounded by guys on my team, and then I’ve had a job where I was surrounded by females both as bosses and peers and I’ll tell you now I miss being with the men. They can be mean too but they certainly aren’t fake as hell. The women are so fake they smile in your face and tell you bold lies to make you feel like they accept you and then turn their backs and really they hate you (and everyone else). It’s just ridiculous behavior.

[Usi84833]

I can imagine! I think many women find any little piece of power they can and they they try to run it into the ground and take full advantage of it by nagging or abusing others whether in small or large ways.

[Asker]

Yep, even 50s. So true, couldn't agree more. Well said

[Asker]

And it's sad cause I find myself lonely like barley any friends for this reason alone

[Asker]

But better be alone than deal with toxic contacts

[Asker]

And as u said, fake. That's what it is exactly

[Asker]

It's crazy. I used to have a best friend, grew up with her but even as kids she was like this weird and full of drama lol. Didn't change much now

[Asker]

And then they like to make you feel like the outcast weird one (bullying even psst hs) lol and never admit their own wrongdoings

[Asker]

*past

[Usi84833]

Wow, sorry to hear that. It sucks losing a friend. Thanks and yes better to be alone. Same, am lonely and alone and if anything hope to make some male friends. Men are smart and they accept you for who you are.

[Usi84833]

So true, they never want to admit they’re wrong. I was recently bullied by a roommate and i had to move out because of it. It seems like these fake women just hate others because I’ve seen women act fake to many other women’s faces but then turn around and gossip or talk smack. I think they are just hateful people.

[Asker]

Yeah, especially in the worldplace. There's more logic and order when there's men involved, especially management. I'm also a daycare worker and I had my fair share of mean girls and drama. Isn't easy!

[Asker]

But unfortunately I find in mixed workplaces they're getting the guys involved in the drama too and hooking them, so some dumb guys act the same lol which is just untouchable. Enough having to deal with the females!

[Asker]

*unbelievable

[Asker]

Sorry to hear u were bullied :/

[Usi84833]

Thanks :( oh no not the dumb guys getting involved haha, some guys I know are naturally into drama (they seem more effeminate), but yeah if guys wanna act silly that’s on them but it makes them look weak instead of stoic and in charge.
Male management is the best for sure. 100%

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes and I even still to this day haven't found many girls who act normally

[jahaims]

You are just describing low quality people. It isn't gender specific.

[Wise4myage]

Nothing unusual about that, it happens to guys too.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, a lot of women say they don't get along with other women.

[Opinion Owner]

Responding to your update: no, I usually get along with other people just fine, this includes other men.

[Dargil]

Yes, it is. It's behavioral issues.