Isn't it ironic how most people that have always said that they are there for you, are lying and get impatient when you complain?

[Ryan210000]

This is why so many people have always kept things to themselves.

[LazerBean]

I'm there for people who are going to actually do something about the crap they complain about. I'm not interested in hearing someone complain about the same thing for years that has obvious solutions that they are not interested in even trying. I think most people don't take into account the habitual whiners when they say they are there for that person. That said, I am also blessed to live is a lovely, helpful community despite such people. There will always be people who say things that they don't mean, the best thing you can do is make sure you pick your friends carefully and don't wear them out with nonsensical baggage.

[ZiaCowel2000]

I’m a cynical person. I’ve been more in my head then out and I see patterns in lots of social settings. It’s just words I don’t take them seriously. It’s just to make them feel good or to cosplay as someone kind.(superficial)


Because even if they listen they don’t know what to do, it’s all up to yourself really. And most of them don’t really care and if you keep coming to them about the same thing they’ll get tired of it.

[jshm2]

No. speak for yourself, sunny,