Does anyone else hate being called out by a race?

[Anonymous]

First of all I refuse to identity as bla ck. First of all no one wants to date girls like us so I refuse to associate with the term second it's annoying. It's funny if I was fair skin people would be like "oh that girl with curly hair." Or "oh that girl with a pink skirt." But anytime you are darker it's always gotta be assumed "bl a ck." I literally feel like I am being judged by a sin when people call me out by my race. Also because guys get off to calling us ugl y I literally got sit here callin on Jesus because they are judging me so hard.

[ohsheeT]

Just remember one thing when God created us he. Knowing this planet and the harsh environment conditions depending on where you're living at he made it so our bodies would adapt and over 3,000 years our ancestors by these adapted to whatever reason they lived in just to protect them from the Sun to protect them from the harsh environment colors nothing it was placed in all of us to adapt and then some jackass wanted to start putting labels on all of us just remember this you are beautiful human being on the inside and that's who you are you are a spiritual being not a physical being with your body your temple your body will die go into the dirt but your spirit will live on and everybody that is giving you a hard time everybody that judges because of color or anything else will have to pay a price someday love yourself love yourself within protect other people from other people bullying them the way they're bullying you remember who you are on the inside I know it's hard to do but I know you can do it I can hear it in your voice you are strong you are wise and you know in time you will be the winner no matter what I know you don't want to win because there's nothing to win except for who you truly are and that is a beautiful person

[normalice]

Being white that doesn't really apply to me but I think people who are passively racist aren't people you'd want to end up with, anyway. That instinct to care how you are being evaluated for your "assets" is getting mixed up with evaluations of your race. You need to parse them out in your mind. If for no other reason than because the sort of man who would value the shape of your body while looking down on your race is not going to be the sort of man you'll want to find yourself alone with.

[avery58]

I can understand how you would feel offended by just being singled out by your race, I guess it makes you feel like they don't see you as an individual or they see your race before you. So that's a very valid argument.

But that point aside, it seems like you feel ashamed of your race as well. You should embrace who you are without needing the validation of others, be proud of everything that makes you you. Learn to feel confident and beautiful, and be proud of your personality and what makes you as a person stand out.

[Changiis07]

I'm guessing you overheard someone calling you like that... I'd say don't let it bother you. You can't change what comes out of someone's mouth so hang out with who you want to hang out with like you mentioned

[DarkLegacy]

OMG! Another load of woke nonsense, now we are allowing people to change their skin colour are we. So does that mean you are race neutral or something. People need to seriously get a grip, this is what the woke want to take away any form of identity. You are black and that is that.

[Hanrej]

To be fair there are plenty of guys who are very attracted to black women but then you'll shame them for their attraction and call them fetischists. Has it ever occured to you that men don't approach black women because we've all had the "damned if you don't, damned if you do"-experience?

[lightbulb27]

yes I find it shallow... as if there is one white people? how ludicrous.

most people are reasonable and quickly lookat you as an individual. those that dont... move on fast.

[Alex-Snow]

There is absolutely no reason for that to happen it is rude and should not be tolerated. We all are human beings who just happen to look different.

[Tim2nice]

When I hear shit like this I say to myself I’m glad I don’t live in America. That place is obsessed with the words race and racism.

[Kingofkings1992]

If you are black, you are black. You can’t just say“ I don’t identify as black”, and all of a sudden you aren’t black anymore.

[jahaims]

Grow up and don't worry about what others think

[noohair]

I like darker women