Am I The Only One That Kinda Hates Being A Black?

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Women? I'm in shambles I hate my skin, my hair, the way people perceive me. The way other races treat me the way people agree that black women are ugly esp dark black women. I'm starting to feel useless In this world and often contemplate offing myself. I'm also becoming very hateful against white people and other races for contributing into the demise of my self esteem. Am I the only black women that feels this way? Feeling like no matter what you do people will still hate you and treat you poorly solely bc you're a black women even if you're nice and feminine. There's no point everyday online feels like another minstrel show and we are the joke time after time. I think if we disappeared we'd fair better

HotPinkDominatrxSlut · Accepted Answer

Well at least you admit your ugly and inferior and no man of any race wants you. Of course everyone knows that men of all races live beautiful natural blonde hair blue eyed white girls like me and you black girls are so jealous of us, especially those of us who are in relationships with and/or have black kids, and you're all mad and jealous because no man of any race loves or wants you. I'm a very beautiful highly intelligent white girl with natural pure platinum blonde super shiny hair much longer than I am tall and the lightest brightest bluest eyes, and married to and have kids with a very dark sexy black man. Yes I always have to deal with hate and jealousy from ugly jealous black girls like you. I know it makes you sooo jealous seeing beautiful blonde hair blue eyed white girls like me with dark sexy black men and black kids. Black girls always get so mad and jealous when they see me with my very dark sexy black husband and my black kids. I just laugh. Your jealousy and anger of us is sooo funny and amusing. It's not my or any other white girls fault we're so beautiful and so smart and men of all races love and want us and you're so ugly, dumb, Snell bad, and have such bad hair and no man of any race loves or wants you. I do give you credit though for at least admitting you're jealous of us. Something mist black women try to deny despite it being soooo obvious.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As a white woman I promise you’re equally inferior to men as we are

ElementoP · Accepted Answer

NO ONE is responsible for your self esteem but you.
I can't speak for everyone, but I don't see black women and think "eww gross, she's black!". I actually think black women are sexy as hell and I'd love to meet one some day who doesn't hate white people because of her jaded perception of them.
I DO see people with an obvious shitty attitude and think "I don't wanna be around that person"
Everyone gets treated like shit by other people, regardless of their race. Don't let that cloud your perception of the world and thinking it's because you're black. 99% of the time it's because they have a stick up their ass or the way you're coming across to them is offputting.
Smile, be kind and forgiving and I bet your interactions with people will start to improve

NewsReader · Accepted Answer

Never thought they would feel that way. Don't see how. Nothing ugly about very dark skin. I was friends with a couple of girls with very dark skin, feminine, all of that. They were great. Don't know where they are now. Anyway, I think it's the liberal media that's pushing all this. They are the ones who are always putting black women down by saying that this negativity affects women of color, that black women don't get jobs or grades they deserve, etc. All of that is totally false from what I see. I think it's the media that's making black women feel this way by sending a negative message towards them.

anylolone · Answer

Have you tried having a positive outlook?

Let's start with some basic truths.
You aren't entitled to people, the same way they aren't entitled to you.
That means that any appreciation you get is a plus.

Let's suppose that what you are saying is true (unlikely) and you are the ugly duckling...

You only need one dude who's not a psychopath to like you, and it's not like anyone has the time to fuck the whole world anyway, so you don't even need their validation.

So, all that "mating dance" is basically solved for you, find a dude who values you and value him back.

Juxtapose · Answer

Tell that to Oprah Winfrey.

You and only you are responsible for your own emotions. Nobody else is going to save you and frankly if you're that invested in what other people think of you when they don't even give a fuck about you then you're not going to last very long. Only concern yourself with a thoughts of those close to you, who gives a shit what some random bigot thinks?

SiberFox · Answer

I'm late to the party, but don't. I can assure you there's nothing wrong with you. Your outlook on the other hand... learn to respect yourself and your efforts. People are mean and nasty and they will bring you down if you let them. Well stand strong and tell them they're the ones going down.
You have power over your mind not outside events, realise this and you will find strength.

Smallboobsgotohell · Answer

Serena William is also dark black but she is richer than almost anyone u can think of have a drwm and pursue it and grab it

Anonymous · Answer

Are you fucking kidding me? Do you have any idea how many grants and scholarships to college you’ll be given solely for being a black woman? My goddamn city gives free college tuition to “underrepresented minorities”—oh but if you’re a honkey you still gotta pay! Tough shit! Isn’t white privilege wonderful?

I feel no pity for you. You’re better off than me.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Nope, I never felt that way in my entire life. I think that’s something you should discuss with professional

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Well this is GaG, so there has to be plenty of "Black" people who are self-hating also. They just do it in different ways. Some hate the opposite sex/gender. The belief manifests in different ways.

Cubus · Answer

You're not useless. There's nothing bad about being Black. Some of the nicest and kindest people I met in my life were Black females. Head up girl :)

Avicenna · Answer

You should never feel that way about yourself. There are always some haters out there, no matter what your race or appearance may be, so be the person you want to be and be proud of yourself.

Stoner710 · Answer

black women aren't ugly look at Candice Owens she beautiful smart funny and tell you like it is, The same with Kim klacik and Harris Faulkner and Condoleezza Rice all beautiful black women.

driven159 · Answer

No matter what your skin color or the way you look doesn't matter there is someone for everybody, but you can't change racism, but you can make the way you act and behave and dress the way that makes you feel sexy

Anonymous · Answer

I'm Russian, and not liberal, and not a simp. And I still find as many colored girls attractive as I do white girls. People are full of hate, and make up all sorts of stupid reasons to hurt others.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

No I think every nice person of each race is beautiful I've dated black girls Indian an some other girls from other counties an I'm sorry you feel bad about being black you should love your self

Cristinaissweet · Answer

Not true, as long as you're feminine and take care of yourself someone will like you.

Guardian45 · Answer

NEVER HATE who you are! Hate the injustice against who you are!

joeldalton · Answer

You sound like you have some mental issues to work through.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol you just hate being ugly Lol. And want sympathy points.

MountAverage · Answer

I'm sorry that you feel that way.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

There’s nothing to hate

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