Is there a reason I am so hated?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday this ignorant guy who was a customer made fun of the way I look after I helped him. I turned around to ask a question to a coworker and he said "her broke a. S weave." And then he started laughing. This is a grown man WITH A CHILD!!! I thought white people hated me but it seems Mexicans are worse and Asians never liked me. I work in retail and I get evil look from all the men who are Mexican. It doesn't matter how old or young. The only ones who don't give me a evil look are the really old Mexican women. The girls make fun of me and laugh and the men treat me like I'm a pile of dog crap. I live near a ignorant city called downey California and people are so rude at this mall. These evil teens passed by and started laughing and said "she looks kinda weird." I'm scared because this is probably my 14th job and I was bullied at everyone of them. It was either the customers, coworkers, or a manager. I noticed the poorer the area the ruder the people are. This hairdresser treated me like trash for no reason. I don't fit it with anyone because I am mixed but not a pretty mixed. I have acne scars and am very skinny. I am trying my hardest to look prettier and more feminine. I used to wear pounds of makeup and tight clothes and when I stopped I started getting treat like crap. I got tired of wearing skinny jeans due to being uncomfortable so I brought a pair but they are too big and now people are making fun of my pants. If I am talking a customer the first thing they do is stare me up and down. The women don't stare at how my pants look. Is the there a reason Mexican guys hate black girls? It really hurts I used to be praised for my looks in school and now I'm being spit upon worse than Jesus himself

[Brokenheartedx]

Take out the whole equation you are black...
Then ask yourself why is society bullying me?
Its an age old question because the victim (you) is looking for it. Bullies seek out their victims, they can smell the fear, you unintentionally are emitting the fear subconsciously into their radar. It's nothing to do with your skin tone or how you look, I'll bet my left arse cheek you walk about head down, not looking at anyone or you do but have a scared look on your face, shoulders hunched like an old biddy, bullies love that, but bullies are also idiots, because a wise person full of confidence knows full well bullies are losers, who project their insecurities onto other, believe it or not they are threatened by you, inside they know you have something they haven't got and I bet its empathy and kindness... your self esteem is on the floor and been trampled on... Who do you think did that?
I'll quote, I'm trying to make myself look pretty.. It doesn't matter how much makeup, nice clothes or what you do with your hair if your self esteem is on the floor, no amount of makeup will make you feel better because you put yourself down...
You need to feel better about you and how do you do that? By waking up everyday and say how fucking awesome you are... Bullies are 10 a penny, you are original and kind and not like them.

A wise black woman told me that I was awesome and to believe it... so I'm telling you...

You are frigging awesome, believe it

[Changiis07]

Like you mentioned people in certain areas tend to be rude, try looking for another job. Some people just weren't taught to be nice and show respect to others it doesn't matter what race either, it can be white, black, latinos, Asians it just depends how they were raised

[KostasKouvalis]

Despite some claims to the contrary, and the handful of Mexicans marching alongside BLM, the truth is that Latinos in general, HATE black people. Latino and Black gangs are always killing each other, and just look at the government policies in countries like Mexico and El Salvador regarding Black people.

As for Asians, the Asians in Asia are certainly more hateful then the ones in America, but I guess a lot of Asians are bitter now because the majority of anti-Asian attacks are perpetrated by blacks, but with the way Asians treat blacks, I'm not in the least bit surprised.

Despite what the fine reporters at MSNBC and CNN and the fine women of "The View" want you to believe, White people are actually the LEAST racist.

Lastly, I actually had to Google that city, because I've never heard of it. Los Angeles already has a reputation for rude people, and the area you're in is the worst of the worst. A good majority of the people you're encountering are most likely involved in gangs, so they aren't your best people. I feel even if someone feels hateful things, the majority of people will keep it to themselves in public, but these gangs are fueled by hatred and making other people's lives miserable.

Don't take it too personally, because I assure you, you aren't the only victim, you just have the misfortune of living in one of the shittiest parts of the country.

[Mantinziza]

Flip the switch on em, when you start gettin railed at by these people.

Stare em down, and just say somethin just as rude back and who cares if you get fired, why even bother working for a shit hole like that, somethin as simple as.

And be ready to own it when you do.

"well it only makes sense a bunch of poor ass sun baked dried bean suckin roof workin sacks of shit, our Chinese child sewn leftovers here pretty are made of left over pissed stained diapers straight from india, right in your price range my good sir , if you buy it now I'll even bang the dents outta your car".

And don't flinch when they react, give em a taste of there own poison and find some where better to work.

[Guy13]

You mentioned Jesus. Are you In Christ Jesus? If so, go be honest with Him. Rarely, am I calm prayer...

[Anonymous]

I'm black and yes Mexican guys are extremely racist twords blacks. I've been called a gorilla to my face by the men.

[Brokenheartedx]

Martial arts class and a quick kick to their nads put a stop to it... Cheeky fookers calling anyone anything... Must not own mirrors in their homes

[Iron_Man]

Sorry to hear that stay in the gym stay positive

[Avicenna]

You are around some awful people