Are there any reasons why I’m getting the same results from online dating and real life dating?

[SeaStorm1]

I know some repeat patterns that I might be making but maybe it is not just me. The biggest problem i got is with my mum she always goes out when i want to go and same with dating and going on dates with men. Mum always be with me no matter what. Talking or expressing my feelings doesn't work and just turns into agure about men. This happens a lot. My mum hates mainstream dating sites/apps. I dislike disabled dating sites. They suck. I did reject a player and friendzone him. Then he sent me a message today on a different dating app and I deleted and block him. I get the same problem with real life men that I met. Some were too young and some were too old. The last guy that we met was 42 years old in Manchester at social events for learning disability. I also have noticed that I don't get attracted to some men in real life. I had been attracted to one man but wasn't sublie for boyfriend material and was too young to and his age was 17 years old and was also very busy with college. i had been on more than one date with different guys but just went right back to start. That is what i have noicted. Are there any reasons why I’m getting the same results from online dating and real life dating?

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5 mo

I got a learning disabity

[m33ladEmjay]

Yes! It seems like your focus is on, HOT guys, you're goanna be alone the rest of your life.

High-value men are very tolerant. Whenever girls chance hot guys, I know the place is in trouble.

Men are not designed to be hot-looking. Females are. When a woman chances a hot guy she's going against nature. That doesn't mean that you should care about how a man looks. But remember if you make the guy's looks (Face) your standard, Then you're chasing your own unhappiness.

Girls all think that they're 10s in the West. Since men have become so desperate for women they keep worshiping and lying to women. THUS women all think that they're 10s and they're the best and they deserve the best. They're NOT! and they don't get what the lies men have been feeding them

Then 90% of girls chase the top 2% of guys. Those guys go on dates with girls that look +2 to go in bed with them and nothing more.

Which is why you're finding yourself to be unhappy & with your choices.

If you want full coaching, I can do 1&1 for free. VIA voice chat. you can go to my website click on the WhatsApp logo and contact me.

[SeaStorm1]

I don't chocie to date ugly hot men that can all die. i dislike tall men. prefer short men avege men. yet get tons of attetion men both men and yep players aslo and aslo well creep. assuming all women are same when they are not all same ,

[SeaStorm1]

meant choice

[m33ladEmjay]

I'm not a woman that you're using female thought processes on me. And your n#sty defensive attitude is the reason why you're in the 1st mess to begin with.
You actually don't choose men. men choose you. Hot men aren't goanna go into a relationship with me. You sound like you're 3 out of the 10 max! with your attitude drops you down to minus -10..
You talk to me like this. And you dont know how I am. I can already tell the amount of SIMPS you have been surrounded with.
Weak men create hard times, = women become entitled (LIK YOU) Average women think they can get hot guys. THey can't. Hot guys only sleep with them.
High value men that women should be chasing dont play these games, as they have very little tolerate.
They go places like Russia, Romaina, Urkiabe, and Thailand and get themselves a 9 out of 10 feminine likable girl. (I AM NOT referring to passport bros) as they're l0zers who go aboard and date H00kers.

Then the circle of girls like you keep chasing the top 2% of men goes in circles you chase your own tail. You go past age 30 and lose all those SIMPS fake attention, your value goes to minus -10 and you're left with 9 cats.

[m33ladEmjay]

Hot men aren't goanna go into a relationship with you.***

[SeaStorm1]

I don't want to be in relationship with ugly hot men. there are fucking ugly and cheaters. why would i want to date them. lame ass , if bother to read my qestion and my upidate. again i'm not attracted to ugly hot men that will cheater.

[m33ladEmjay]

I never said ugly. I said dont make a guy's face your everything which sounds like what your main and only focus is. And I suggest changing that attitude or no one is goanna wanna be around you. You have to find an honest guy. most guys lie to get you go in bed with them.. So they're goanna pretend they want relationships, while they only want ONS!

[SeaStorm1]

I don't even focus on any type of look no matter men are. So far I don't even want to be in relationship with hot men that got a shitty personality. also are going be more cheaters that got men are. I hate men like that.

[m33ladEmjay]

yah you hate men who tell the truth Until the time comes when sh## hits the fan. Then those guys "who you love" will make sure to stand up and watch you and get bea##n up or whatever and record. Society has so been so weak that masculine are hated until when sh## hits the fan and the world see those hateful men are the same ones needed to save women and children.

You also dont make sense keep jumping up around the topic. You misandry spoiled ungrateful woman.

Enjoy your 90 cats... you goanna be single all your life.

[SeaStorm1]

I already has beating up men and broke every single of there heart to piece. Is not truth. is bullshit.

[SeaStorm1]

And did also in video games.

[m33ladEmjay]

They're NOT Men they only look like men. That's why you're upset with me because you never had talk to a man.
That's why you're m1serable. You're dating weak weak weak feminine men and you're calling them men. I've offered you free coaching & you dont want it. So enjoy.. your journey.

[SeaStorm1]

I don't even want you. Not man to me bye

[SeaStorm1]

I don't even want you or help. Not man to me bye

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

We all got bad luck streaks when it comes to dating, so this could be the issue.

[SeaStorm1]

yet some reason i don't like hot men and why do men assume that are women want hot men i just see hot men are manchild and will be cheater from my experince with men in college

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Uby10000]

Nowdays they don't differ too much from each other. Also having your mother around with you is a very big turn off for many men unfortunately. It just takes more time for you but that's how this modern world works...
Don't give up though, keep insisting on it and it will happen

[Gent207-2]

How appropriate is your username name for I have never seen such a storm of a mess.

I don't know the dating scene in the UK but bringing your mother along will always sour things and thus reduce your odds of finding a suitable mate

[SeaStorm1]

my mother will never listen to me at all. so your advice in unhelpful for a women with a learning disabity

[Gent207-2]

I have been diagnosed with ADD since I was 6 and now I'm married with two kids, trust me I know the struggle is real.
But at some point you have to stans up for yourself and draw healthy boundaries. If she refuses to respect you or your boundaries than it's time to abandon her

[SeaStorm1]

That what I been trying to with my mum but still always refuse about dating. I can only date or be in relationship with a men with a learning disabilities only. talking doesn't nothing.

[Gent207-2]

@seastorm1
You are 25 and if you are in the USA, you are a legal adult. Time to cut ties and run.
Find friends to room with and grab a cheap car or rent one for a month.
Grab a job and have nothing to do with your mother ever again

[SeaStorm1]

I'm not from USA. from UK. impossble to move out.

[Gent207-2]

@seastorm1
Even the word says "I'm-possible"
If you have friends and resources you can pull this off.

[SeaStorm1]

I don't have any friends

[JacobJordan]

if you would be so kind as to list your requirements for what you deem to be a suitable partner. it would help us identify much faster if the source of the problem you are facing is you or the guys you are dealing with.

[SeaStorm1]

I don't really care about looks. respectful, truthfully, trustworthy, open communication and asking questions. I had bad experience with men on real life to when I was in college and in not anymore.