What are the results of online dating and real-life dating?

[TheSimFans]

I don't get attracted to many men in real life, it's going to be more difficult for me to find my type of guy in real life. There are some previous ex-boyfriends I met on Facebook or on Badoo. The experience I've had with real dating is similar to the experience I've had with online dating. Whenever I attend events for learning disabilities, I will always have my mother with me at all times, so men will not approach me because they are too busy talking to others. Since then, I have not seen him at any other learning disability events. by the way i do get approched men some men but is not men that i wanted to get approched by. When I date online, do I still get the same results as when I date in person?

[coachTanthony]

You’re 24 so I would stick to Bumble depending where you are at in this world. I would have six photos …. one to two body shots …rest head shots. Use prompts and keep bio somewhat short with what you are looking for and give it a good six months. Also recommend a video chat on app before meeting and stay away from too much chit chat on text

[TheSimFans]

@coachTanthony I already have tried bumble also and got a lot men that just looking for sugers daddys with some women. i only got mirror pics. yep i also did do vidoe call with one but still didn't work.

[coachTanthony]

If you want me to look at your profile and photos DM me. There will always be guys you will need to vet on any app so those type of guys aren't going away.

[OlderAndWiser]

The only way to answer your question is to try online dating.

[TheSimFans]

@OlderAndWiser yep i already tried online dating/apps still getting the same results of real life. i get a few dates but it doesn't go nowhere and go right back at started again.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why does it always fizzle after a few dates?

[TheSimFans]

@OlderAndWiser
I'm not sure but seem if like some men want both serious relationship or sexual relationship at the same time. thar was the last men only had one dates and that was it. the first guy turn out be a player and was in more then one relationship after meeting up for one date but did get cut short.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are your intentions clearly stated in your profile?

[TheSimFans]

@OlderAndWiser. yep i makes sure that my profile is very clear to men intentionsor that is my intentions for a long term relationship and will be only be long term relationship.

[OlderAndWiser]

What site are you using?

[TheSimFans]

all diffenet ones with all diffenet age range and just give up on both real life dating and as well of online dating I been using freedating. co. uk, badoo , Facebook dating and already tried bumble and other dating apps like that.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe you should consider a dating coach. I would expect that your learning disability causes you some extra concerns with dating. @coachTanthony, would you care to contribute?

[RyanK9b]

The reality is the most guys are just not attractive / average.
The majority is this way thats why u see them irl.
On the Internet u can see everyone at everytime from the hole world. Also are there mostly those attractive guys that have the self esteem for that.

[TheSimFans]

@RyanK9b I rarely get attracted to men in real life if i do get atteacted to some men is mosty very rare to find from real life since they more issue with getting close to into relationship as well of other things that already has change with not apporching some women.

[RyanK9b]

I guess u have to bite through the masses of average men. Even online the desired guy u searching is in the 10-15% range of all.
Try Instagram more as a dating site

[TheSimFans]

@RyanK9b Instrgram and facebook to.