What can I do when I don't seem to be able to get a boyfriend from online dating? However, I decided to try dating for learning disability?

[Anonymous]

I'm getting nowhere with online dating. Men still get results. seem to see the same thing. Changing dates since they can't make it since it's their birthday. As I see it through online data, it appears to be an excuse. Not yet tried dating in person, but may get to meet some guys. Now I'm tired of the same shit men who cannot be bothered with me, so they fuck as far away from me as they can. Assholes, cheaters, liars, players, and yes, even some tall men I will always reject. I might as well try a learning disability dating site that is aimed at people with learning disabilities. Not any luck so far. It's not clear to me why I keep starting at the same time and place. Already started the year badly.

[SnowedIn]

I think the solution really is what you already said: in person. Start meeting people at the places you go. Ask the ones you like for a coffee. It might work it might not. In the meantime you've had a coffee and a muffin and some conversation. Or substitute a place and activity you like. But the whole thing will be much more fulfilling in general than a phone screen and probably yield you a boyfriend.

[Asker]

That is the problem. I tried real life dating and it was all the same. Did you get rejected? Did overhead guys say having girlfriend. Happens more than once. Would you prefer a shorter guy over a taller guy. Like shy guys, nerds, gamers and I'm not sure where to go to the city to there are more people there.

[SnowedIn]

I hear you and I'm sorry you're having this struggle. All I can say is that there's only three choices:
1. online
2. in person
3. don't date/have no relationships

I don't know about you but #3 would be a non-starter for me. It sounds like #1 isn't working for you. That leaves #2 and you just keep working at it.

[Asker]

I had relationships in previous years but none of them ever lasted. Finding is difficult to talk to and think about. I'm getting sick of being single where some guys already got girlfriends. I don't know where to go but part of the city. College was the worst place. I got a learning disability.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[SphynxUK]

Be more selective. Take your time. If they don’t show enough interest at the first in person date, don’t see them again.

[Asker]

I already try that too. Still here single.

[Anonymous]

Feel sad for you