Bears and brick walls, red pills and black pills and Andrew Tate nonsense. Radical feminism, traditional vs non traditional.
There are a lot of clashes of genders mainly online. Overall I believe that at the end of the day, there is still mutual respect.
Now is the time to list what you enjoy about the opposite sex. I'm sure there will be some trolling on both sides so NO ANONYMOUS on this one. Just a heads up.
With the division lately online between genders, what is something about the opposite sex that you truly enjoy?
I don’t meet a lot of hardo ladies, and I like that. SOOOOOOO many dudes are hardos, lmfao. Posturing and talking tough (usually when absolutely nothing is going to come of it, just words in the wind)…. it’s exhausting. And as an (air-quotes😂) athlete who has spent a lifetime playing contact sports and being around it, engaging in it myself…. I’m tired, man, lmao. It’s like our natural masculinity isn’t enough, we have to be doing the most at all times. Once in a while you find yourself perceiving it from the sidelines, uninvolved, and usually you see that it’s pretty laughable.
So I salute the ladies for being “not that”, haha. I know women have their own intra-gender battles and drama, but I’m not directly involved in that. I see it from the sidelines sometimes, but it’s not my pig, not my farm. There’s probably some room for all of it, and it’s up to both of us to collectively point out the others’ collective blind spots.
But yeah, I enjoy the more gentle energy of women sometimes. A whole gang of women can be overwhelming, because I’m swallowed up in their dynamic, but one or a few women is nice, as long as other dudes aren’t around. The worst part of having women in my company is how they cause other dudes to change their behavior😂 Some guys, you can hang with them and they’re reasonably cool, but you throw a woman in the mix, and this look just washes over them, and they just completely lose their cool and get performative and weird.
See: “Date Mike” (not that usual Michael Scott was all that normal, lmfao)
Good question, also the entire us and them is really blown out of proportion by social media. I don’t really see it in real life, everyone just mucks in with work that needs done.
I enjoy how girls think completely differently from guys, when faced with a problem guys will on the whole go at it from a certain mindset, girls don’t tend to do this and tackle things from a different mindset.
Girls on the whole tend to talk about issues more and share problems, this makes it far easier to talk to them about any problems or issues, not only do they look at it differently, they are also more approachable. Try chatting to some of my guy mates about something and it’s 🤦♂️
with the mixed sex side of things there is less of the you say you have been to Tenerife, your mate says they went to Elevenerife, then next guy is I went to Twelverife, basically they feel the need to go one better.
a big one for me is how girls are more in tune with seeking mental health help, this includes talking among each other, giving support and then also sticking with counselling. With guys it’s crazy how much we isolate ourselves, don’t seek help or when we do, don’t stick with it.
May be me but I do find girls are more open with sex and sexuality, likes and dislikes.
There is too much. I enjoy most about the opposite sex. Its only a few things I dislike and even they are not shared by everyone.
Asside from those aspects that are probably dependant on attraction: All of the following are from those I trust. They can have a presence that make you feel safe. Great emotional support with different inputs to what most women-friends have. They often act more logical to situations. Not saying they dont show emotions but sometimes both feel right in a different ratio. Masculinity and feminity often support each other so that is great.
I love their physical strength, I don't know how many times I've been helped by strong arms.
Their natural protectiveness is nice. I always feel safe when I'm out with my male family members or friends.
One thing though, when they aren't afraid to tap into their softer sensitive side. I love that. Usually when they aren't afraid of that, they are also emotionally intelligent and empathetic.
Well at my job I train a lot of people. Most of them start in the department that I oversee. From there they usually move up eventually if they show something special and have good work ethic. So I weed out the duds and the good prospects for the company. Like a drill sergeant only I'm not yelling and cursing and berating people. I'm just teaching and evaluating them. A lot of young people of course.
Women tend to be easier to train and teach. And that's because they listen better. When I'm talking they listen. And when I'm finished they ask questions because they've taken in what I've said. A lot of guys when I talk it's " Yeah yeah yeah". Yeah yeah yeah like fuck you listened to what I said. And when the time comes to complete a task I just spent ten minutes explaining they fumble about and maybe get it half right, which isn't good enough. And they rarely ask questions because they think they know it all already. Not all of them of course but I really don't have to repeat myself much when training women. That's what I like about women. When you're talking to them, for better or for worse, their ears are like sponges.
Looks, mannerisms, voices. The feel of their soft, squeezable bodies. Pussy!
Okay. Aside from the physical, I like other things. Foremost, they vulnerable, even if they try not to show it. I think it's charming that (many) women want someone who makes them feel safe and secure.
I like women who enjoy playing the lady-gentleman game - being treated as if they are delicate even though they are perfectly capable of doing things for themselves. It elevates a man's masculinity and a woman's femininity.
They are inclusive. For example, instead of saying "I'm hungry", they'll say "Are you hungry?"
They are tender, nurturing and caring. They can kick into mothering mode when someone gets hurt or doesn't feel well.
There is such a thing as a "woman's touch" around the house. They like to make things comfortable and pretty.
They are smart and intuitive, and more perceptive than men.
They are more free their emotions.
They are plucky in trusting a man who is much larger and stronger than are they, and submitting to him sexually.
lol what? I’m moderately feminine. I’m just not a submissive little bitch. “Feminine” doesn’t really mean much anyways since it’s subjective. I have a great relationship with my mother. Do you not have an argument? That seems to be the reason why you want to play psychologist.
Oh no! The freak who thinks women should be submissive little sex dolls wants to avoid me! Whatever will I do!! Will I be forced to resort to having actually good sex with my boyfriend? Oh no!!! What’s a terrible fate!
When a woman has a sense of humor, it always will make me laugh! Women with witty mines can find something funny that I would’ve never expected! And when they say it, I’m usually stopped in my tracks for a quick reply because I would’ve never thought of that!
Mostly vagina. And that’s usually not all it’s cracked up to be. Ell oh ell! There’s literally nothing else that is uniquely feminine. In fact, i bet that if most people examined their values closely, they’d realize that whatever it is that they like about the opposite sex, they like as much, if not more, in the same sex. It’s not awesome when a woman is strong enough to hold her man up when he’s out of balance? It’s not amazing when your guy pal senses you need to get something off your chest? Just me? K
If they are nice and like you they can make a world of difference. Every day is a good day if a girl is in good vibes with you, here feminine energy has no substitute.
In general girls can be very kind, very supportive, very understandable in the sense that they understand you and how you feel, and they can offer good advice, and show you a girl's perspective which I find interesting.
And of course I really like the way they look! Again, in life there is no substitute for an attractive girl. I don't want to go into more explicit detail. I'll keep it mild.
What I really like is the opposite sex.. is their capacity for problem-solving without losing their cool or going wild. 😂 To be honest, most of my female friends struggle to relax. So when I have a career or serious problem, I tend to ask a male figure first.
Yay! Something to take us in a positive direction!! I love how men love to be helpful. I love how men get so obviously happy when they make a woman laugh. I love how men will step in to protect a woman, even one they don’t even know. I LOVE when my husband looks at me with hungry eyes… I melt inside and I just want to be his feast…
Women, being more socially engaging and lively, make life generally more fun and interesting.
I also appreciate how they give men a sense of purpose, focus, and direction. That's not at all to say that men don't have these things without women, because we do. Nor does it mean that only women provide these things. There's just a different and slightly higher degree of them.
I like that for the most part a lot of women have a strong sense of empathy. its something i always look for and women seem to have it in spades. it makes relating things to them much easier than with guys
yup that is definitely part of it. another reasons is just the culture, we're taught to bottle in the emotions and deal with it because to express emotions is seen as a weakness. it's toxic masculinity. i know thats a dirty term on the internet but completely true and needs to change.
For me personally it could be man or woman i just have to trust you first and then i don't mind sharing emotional moments with them.
Yeah that whole scenario was obviously an exaggeration but doesn't mean that the overall message being pointed out is that there's still wayyyyy too much violence and sexual harassment and assault towards women that needs focussing on and attention. That's all that message was trying to convey, even if it was over the top.
yeah the hypothetical was to get guys to empathize more with what you women face around men you don't know. it totally worked on me. i can't help but feel a little good about myself that i got it immediately and a lot of other dudes don't lol.
Many things. Girls/women have a sort of inborn, effortless grace about them in how they act and carry themselves. You are superior at grooming yourself and looking your best. You're naturally empathetic (in general) and kind. Girls who also in general, have such rich, thick, long and lucious hair is also always just nice to look at. Then there's the more prosaic, sexual reasons I have of course. You didn't give one yourself though. What do you like?
the first thing... is just not part of my life at all, never seen or experienced a gender divide like that (certainly nothing as absurd as the online madness) and besides G@G I've never really used any app that resembles social media, so... that's been great
most of my experiences and relationships of course, come from real life interactions, and for the most part they've been great and what follows next... whether is the women in my mother, my relatives, neighbors, friends to the family, teachers, coworkers, acquaintances, my best friends who happen to be mostly women and obviously, every girlfriend I ever had... they are and have been great people, that's why they are in my life
and I do see them and appreciate them as people first, and love them as women next... different kinds of love, lmao and what's not to love?
but I'll tell you what I like the most, and it's something that I also loved and love with the women I've been with... genuineness
that they're genuine, and more importantly free... to be genuine and truly with me, that's the one thing I loved the most, when they do let you see them and live them just the way they are, which is of course a wonderful thing that they are, and can be and in so many ways too
Mandyfire98 is one of the opposite gender members that is a delight on this platform that is one thing.
I honestly love the closeness & support & kindness that ladies give each other, wished I had guy connections like that. Not in a ‘feminine’ way obvious, but it is missing that social connectivity.
I love how insightful they are, especially with emotions. I love their energy, and how they make things around them more. More beautiful, more fun, more tasty, more enjoyable all around. I love how mesmerizing they can be when they move, and how they can be interested in such different things from me
I enjoy their company and conversation besides the physical pleasure we can bring each other. I only see the division as an extreme online but in real life it's not nearly as bad (not non existent) and I base that on my observations as well as female friends and colleagues that I interact with. We all seem to agree media and the Internet exaggerate everything.
I appreciate masculinity, strength and their ability to comfort and provide safety for me. Those are just a few of things about men that I truly enjoy.
I know it's stereotyped, but women tend to listen and empathize better than men. If I have a problem, I tend to want to talk to my mom or a female friend.
I think women have much more empathy and emotional maturity than men do. Men tend to be afraid of expressing their emotions, besides anger, around other men because they are afraid of being perceived as weak. I also think that women are much better at handing out compliments. Of course, we don't mind when they are flirty too 😂
I enjoy a woman's whole thought process. Yes, believe it or not men and women think differently. But I like that. Even though we may be on the same side of an argument our reasonings are different. It is those differences that allow for a small understanding into what makes them into who they are.
I truly enjoy being able to talk about problems and finding solutions together and I love to cook for my female friends and see them enjoy a home cooked meal made especially for them but honestly most of all I really enjoy when I'm with that special someone and hearing her gasps and moans of pleasure that I am causing/giving her.
I love that guy's will typically go out of their way to help someone as they just walk by. I've noticed it's not just being polite for women, but to eachother as well. They seem more likely to stop what they're doing to help someone lift something, push a car out of the way, etc.
I like that female friends are often more empathetic over guy friends. There is far less guff when dealing with them, where as guy friends have masculinity and social clout in the way most of the time. Guys don't talk to guys as easily about a lot of things.
The caring/nuturing, I wasn't with my girl for long back when I broke my foot but she helped me out a lot while I healed and I'll never forget that from her and had me hooked from then, she might not be the most affectionate girl at times but she is when I'm going through something and knows I need it
I know you have a husband nut still I'd love to chill and cuddle with you. I've been following you for years and you're always the same person and I like that.
I just do, there is nothing special about them but I just feel like life would be tasteless without them be it a girlfriend, wife, mother, sister…
I can’t deny that their interests and drama are over bearing but a person can always leave and close the door for a while.
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Basically comes down to the fact that boys and girls are more easily manipulated in different ways, and the people who own all the platforms in Tech and media cartels doing most of the manipulation are rabidly anti-male.
So Naturally the girls go one radically way and the guys kind of drift the other in reaction.
The curves. Honestly it's intoxicating. Everything about it, the sway of hips, the supple breasts, those concave lips and cute nose. It's the curves that make women women
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