Why is there so much hate for the Sun Dress, Especially if its men that say that they like them?

[worldscolide]

See the video below for more details. But it goes over the fact that If a man some how suggests that he likes a sun dress, its somehow sexist because it provides "Easy access". And trust me on this, That is but one of dozens of reasons men like that kind of dress on women. The video also goes into detail on a trend where its perfectly okay for a woman to demand a man who is at least 6 foot 5, with a trust fund, who works in finance and makes six figures, its perfectly fine to demand that, but the moment a man has a preference on a garment like a sun dress, its sexism and predatory. There is a vox article on it too. Both are below.

https://www.vox.com/culture/351644/the-sundress-discourse-explained

As usual, Please read the article and watch the vid before commenting.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I read the question/opinion and watched the video. :) I like the gal who presents it; she seems like she's got some common sense.

The TikTok-er who posted the viral video is called "Girl on Couch". But she wants a guy who works in finance with a trust fund who is 6' 5"... with blue eyes (important detail here, guys. Stay tuned).

She has greasy hair and a sweat shirt with poor enunciation, and can't even position her camera in a flattering way. I have no idea what her educational credentials are. She can want what she wants, but it doesn't give her a right to it. Shockingly, it works the same way with guys.

I think, I really think, she is delusional and needs psychiatric help...

As for getting the consensus of other women as to whether or not we are allowed to be attractive to a man... The last time I checked, I and many other women are adults who could put together an outfit by ourselves without getting approval from other people. If a woman is so attractive wearing a sundress that she is now objectified by other women as a threat, well... they can buy a sundress if they want, too, and let the contest begin. No one is stopping them from ordering a dozen sundresses from Amazon. I like to be feminine, and I personally think a sundress is more conservative than hot pants and a crop top... I have never been offended by another woman wearing a sundress in my life. Sheesh.

I think some of these women need actual friends who support them, not an Attachments Anonymous group ("Hi, my name is Mary and I relapsed into wanting a relationship with a man..."). It makes me kind of sad, actually. It shows how insecure and controlling people can be, and how little genuine friendship they have in their life.

[LaurenM1997]

I don’t see the issue with a sundress it’s summer what do they expect us to wear in the roasting weather jeans hoodie and a t shirt? 🤦‍♀️

[worldscolide]

Right!!

[LaurenM1997]

And it’s facts 100%

[worldscolide]

agreed. I know you're over seas from me, so it may not get as hot where you are, but it averages 40c to 45c here every day during the summer. Sometimes hotter.

[LaurenM1997]

Oh wow that sounds horrific to go through

[worldscolide]

Agreed. We get two extremes, our winters can be brutal cold, and our summers are stupid hot.

[worldscolide]

It's what I get for living in the Midwest.

[sirderpsalot123]

When I hear things like this, it just goes in one ear and out the other. If I'm told I'm sexist for liking sundresses... fine. I'm sexist. Now what? What is anyone going to do about it?

[worldscolide]

Buddy you and me both. I especially love to see my wife in a sundress.

[worldscolide]

It just seems like such a stupid thing to call sexist.

[sirderpsalot123]

It's the only good thing about summer lol

[sirderpsalot123]

Agreed. They would be crying if men stopped paying attention to them. It's natural for both genders to seek approval from the opposite sex.

[worldscolide]

You got that right

[AviatorTom]

This video is a perfect example of female logic... I believe in this... until I'm not... but I'm still okay with it. Mumbo Jumbo at its finest.

[worldscolide]

no disagreement here

[electromagnetic]

I love me a sun dress. My box body turns into beyonce curves.

[worldscolide]

Hell yes flaunt those curves.

[sage2021]

I just ordered two sundresses the other day.
Come on! It's a damn 👗 dress!!!

[Fireguy17]

There is nothing wrong with a sun dress.
Winter happens all too quickly here and then they go away for seemingly forever.

[midnightmoon05]

Exactly why I don’t watch these videos.
my surroundings/environments are not like that.