How would you feel if people were making assumptions about you that weren’t true?

[Anonymous]

[Skinhead-1979]

Story of my life; and I hate it of course.

I've been accused of a lot... while fact is that I have done that much wrong; I've been in some fights, of course, still a bit of money from 2 employers and sold drugs a couple of times... but the things I have been accused of, by people should know me, are shocking.

If people don't like me, fine... no problem there, I don't like everyone either... but those people should have the decency to leave me alone then; I promise you, I will return the favour.

I can be very defensive about myself. I know I have a lot of flaws, I know I am a very broken man... but I am not a 'bad man'.

All I want to do is 'do good'; I know how it is to struggle, I know how it is to rely on other people... I can't always help out, but I will most certainly do my best.

I made some 'friends' yesterday... helped out a new homeless man in town with money, he also asked if he could have some weed so I gave him the rest of my joint. At the same time a couple came and gave him a 'Tenner' too and some cookies; I've said to the homeless man that I would check up on him occasionally (I have contact with more homeless or ex-homeless people in my town) and see what I can do for him. The couple and I ended up talking, and I got showered in praise. If I've told them the same as I have just mentioned, that I know how it is to struggle and having to rely on people. I have been made homeless 2x myself, though I have never had to sleep rough.

But yeah... I am a bastard who 'rapes, pillages and murders'...

[molonski2]

I think that happens to just about everyone at some point , people make constant assumptions about everything.

[Asker]

Yeah but how do you feel when they’re not true.

[molonski2]

Well its rarely ever true , so you just look life in the eye and control what you can control.

[jennifer_bloom]

This happens to all honest people. The bible says the only way to avoid being hated is to never take a stand on anything or to be fake in your personality.

[itsannalee]

I’ll be upset, but them i don’t really give a shit as long as that won’t take the balance on my bank account.

[Serkee]

Happens every day. It hurts, but there's not much I can do about it so I'll just have to live with it.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

They can keep talking about me, I wouldn't care. Usually, I have my own world lolz.

[Anonymous]

IDC. Unless you’re giving me sex, giving me money for my bills or getting my nails done or feeding me their opinion doesn’t matter lol

[Alexandrubaschet08]

This one make me behave violent, is my limit in real life.

[DanicaPhoenix]

I don't like it, but it happens ALL THE TIME. I wish people would not make assumptions about me, but they do.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'd feel... amused :P

[jahaims]

Idc.