Why do some women enjoy being called derogatory names during sex?

[Pegases]

My theory, most naturally submissive women seem to enjoy embracing the stigma associated with terms like slut, hore, bitch, cunt etc, because it allows them to relinquish control. They get to be free from society judgment in the moment.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think it basically is like a release. Once you call a woman a whore and you're still hanging your dick out for them to... Interact with. You kinda just took away all the uncertainty. There's really no room to be insecure after that.

Then for some people it's a role play. Not being a hoe requires an amount of discipline and self control. To have a situation where you can let go and give into primal, animal desires creates a strong emotional response.

Then there's the other angle some people have that's a little harder for me to understand. But I think it comes from a similar place as what makes some people self destructive.

There's bad ones too but people talk about those all the time.

[hahahmm]

Depends on the woman. There can be more than one reason why and it doesn't necessarily mean she is embracing "stigma" at all. After all it's a private event. Not a porn movie studio.

[hanabunny]

For me it's not really about society or anything it's more like relinquishing control to the guy I'm with to let him say whatever he wants and be his "whore" and not just "a whore" in general if that makes sense

[Anonymous]

Any man who called me any of that would have a lot of pain in some very sensitive areas afterward.

[Serkee]

I'm not sure. My ex wanted me to call her stuff like that, but I couldn't. That sort of thing is a huge turn off for me.

[Anonymous]

People think girls in my country are all sex worker. I hate it. But I secret like guy call me those names and treat me like that in bed. It is what I like even part of me not like it.

[itsannalee]

No, i’m not.

[Pegases]

not what?