What is your opinion on female loneliness in the current state of society?

[HawkPerception]

[MzAsh]

I’ve been reflecting on this and something strikes me. When men and women seek out relationships, they’re led by qualities that feed their lust or stroke their egos. These qualities might draw you in, they aren’t what sustain a relationship over time.


From my perspective as a coach, I see a pattern. Many are focusing on the wrong criteria. They get caught up in the excitement of someone who fits the image they want to project to the world or satisfies their immediate desires. But real, last love is built on a very different foundation.


True compatibility, respect, shared life visions, and deep understanding are the cornerstones of a relationship that lasts. These criteria are often ignored, because it’s not as sexy or flashy, and it’s not as easy to establish as say, someone who’s physically attractive and checks off on all the superficial boxes.

[chrissykerdock]

it's a lot more complicated than that you can be with someone and still feel lonely

[HawkPerception]

If you're feeling lonely when you're with someone then you're simply with the wrong person that doesn't make you feel alive, heard, loved, excited, etc.

[chrissykerdock]

exactly others talk like it's so simple

[Dongie]

If they are lonely then they must be VERY picky. It's like this, if you're lonely you can fill the void temporarily with a member of the opposite sex. You can always get the temp fix unless you have to wait for Mr. Right. Which is stupid.

[FunkyMonkee]

It CAN'T be THAT bad!! I've been single for 25 years!!

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't get how they can be lonely when most could probably get any guy they want