How do we fix the disconnect between men and women in this world?

[Anonymous]

Scrolling through social media is depressing. All I see is men talking about how women are worthless past the age of 25 or only valuable for their beauty. That all women are gold diggers. Women complaining about how they can't trust men because they're are capable of rape. That men won't pay for dates. Husband's don't help out around the household.

I am sick of all the shit! I'm sick of the bitching and complaining! Stop getting stupid ass information off of the internet from content creators that don't know how to keep a healthy relationship if their life depended on it.

All men aren't bad. All woman aren't bad.

Can we go back to a time when everyone fucking respected each other?

[HighValue]

We can't and I can actually tell you the reason why. The majority of women are liberal/Democrat and the majority of men are conservative.

The morals of 2/3 of men/women are completely incompatible. It isn't just complaining, truthfully based on moral differences, the majority of men and women actually HATE each other.

Things that need to be done in order to even begin to improve things cannot be done until women will take accountability for their mistreatment of men for generations, including changing to equal child custody laws, eliminating alimony, creating and enforcing laws against false accusations, having equal jail sentences for the same crimes, changing how no consent is enforced (women are actually raping men constantly when men are under the influence of alcohol and can't give consent when they meet him at a bar/club, but it is ONLY enforced against men).

Disagree? That is the main problem. Most women are extremely unfair and hypocritical and take no accountability for their actions/decisions.

[Astarlessnightsky]

First of all, as always this is just a small but very loud minority on the internet.

Its just better for clicks, likes, fame to be negative and really extreme about something.

There are also lots of more quite content creators talking about how happy they are and what a wonderfull relationsship they have... but those don't get viral.

Second, just a bit of empathy and understanding, and communication help a lot.

If somethings wrong - talk about it.

And times change, some "social rules" that may have been somewhat relavant back. in the 50s don't apply anymore and everyone has to adapt.

[MzAsh]

I hear you, but there never was a time. There’s always been conflicting objectives between men and women.


The internet these days projects the loudest, dumbest voices, and it’s all lazy thinking. there's a lot of accountability that both men and women need to take in order to have a fighting chance at a happy relationship. Truth is, 80% simply don’t want to do the work or take accountability.

[Billlewis]

@MzAsh As usual, Ms. Ash nails it.🎯

[Apple1996]

It's always been this way but now it's being talked about. I've come to the conclusion that the gender wars is acutally about love tho. Love and hate have a thin line in between them. So when we are hating on each other it might acutally be because we really love and desire each other so badly that it comes out as hate

[Nonamez]

I agree with the author of the question 🙏😇
To fix this problem it is mission impossible, but if we have to start , start starts from childhood, parent show example in family ( many families are wtf ) , subjects should be studied in schools from the young age , when grow with the right society around you , then you in most cases become better , but thanks to media , movies , behavior of adults and youngster , it becomes nearly impossible mission , many men are not right in the head and obviously there part of ladies who are messed up too ( it might be faults in family or influence of wrong friends , Tv etc ) 🤔

[Anonymous]

The "disconnect" between men and women is a result of the gender-based hatred mongered by feminism, and by MGTOW and the so called manosphere, both of which exist only because of feminism. If feminism went away tomorrow, MGTOW and the manosphere would be gone the next day, because they would no longer have a reason to exist. Feminism and its misandry, however, would not disappear if MGTOW and the manosphere disappeared. That should answer your question about how to fix the problem.

[Anonymous]

It starts with women trying to understand men as much as men try to understand them. Too many women think today just because they have emotions it's a justification for any sort of behavior. It's equally as bad as a guy who decides just because he has a 🍆 it's OK to go sticking it into any hole he sees.

Most women on this site are terrible people. That's just a sad reality. You have men who come on here looking for advice. And rather than give helpful advice because these women are terrible people they take it as an opportunity to taunt him and get even for any wrong that has ever been done to her, real or imagined. The end result is he either leaves or seeks retribution. And we just continue from there. We didn't start the fire.

I leave you with a musical interlude.😆

https://www.youtube.com/embed/eFTLKWw542g

[Syntosi]

Actually, there was never such a time. It is also the case that if you get away from the front page of social media then most people are very kind and understanding these days. It is just that the controversial people gets more attention and therefore gets seen more.

[DryGermanGuy]

By "this world", you mean the United States, yes? Because I am not aware of any specific disconnect between men and women in my country.

[Asker]

Canada bad as well

[DrPepper12]

We can't, we don't, and we shouldn't. Viva la differencé!!

I also have to say that any sample taken from social media is really not likely to be representational and/or to skew towards those who are already treat disposed to whatever f***** up point of view they already have

[Anonymous]

start by ridding the world of feminism from politics, academia, mainstream media etc.

feminism is at the root of liberalism that sprouts into BLM, ANTIFA, LGBTQ, extinction rebellion etc. kids from single mom households becoming activists than law-abiding citizens. eliminating feminism means there is no more use for counter-cultures

[RavVid]

That would indeed be nice if there was mutal respect. But the mechanisms of that have been expunged from our culture. Feminism inherently has female antagonism to males at it's core. I don't think it can be read any other way.

[Unit1]

I agree.

"Scrolling through social media is depressing."

There's the problem.

[noohair]

The gene is out of the bottle. What do I think of content creators? Anyone that goes to the bathroom creates content. Then it gets flushed.

[Asker]

Unfortunately some content creators are making a very big impact on men and women... Shera Seven, Andrew Tate, Rollo Tomassi, Justpearlythings, etc...

[noohair]

I have no idea who there people are. They are nothing but dog farts to me.

[lightbulb27]

we already have, you have to tune out the other people and focus on the ones that are reasonable.

[SugarSugarplum]

Stop watching porn. Stop thinking about sex all the time.

[Ariesman81]

I think it truly does boil down to understanding. Men and women just need to understand that the other sex needs something different. Not right, not wrong... just different from our own needs.

[Bklynbadboy12]

All we have to do is instead of labeling all women or all men because of a few bad experiences. Try getting to know them I'm not talking about sexually either I mean have an honest and open conversation about what we want instead assuming.

[Fireguy17]

Hopefully they will figure it out.
All things seem to run their course.

[exitseven]

This has been a problem for millenia. If you solve it you will win the Nobel Peace prize

[jahaims]

That's what happens when people plan on getting ran through and then try to find a partner