Do you see anything wrong with a woman telling a man through text message she is pregnant?

[Anonymous]

[AviatorTom]

If he's the man that got her pregnant, she should tell him in person. Otherwise, telling someone via text is okay.

[abc3643]

YES...

If the man is the father, then this is something you discuss IN PERSON AND IN PRIVATE.

[Tarifa]

That's such a big thing that will turn your life upside down -- in a good sense obviously -- for both partners that it demands a more personal approach. The best thing in life as a father was being there when she did the pregnancy test. Another one was being present at birth and cutting the umbilical cord with the assistance of the doctor. Those moments are life changing.

[itsannalee]

Depends on the situation. Like, some people don’t like being on the phone calls, videos call or something like that only use text as a communication. And don’t have time to meet as soon as possible. So texting isn’t a big deal for me.

[lightbulb27]

no but better to do in person.

text is notoriously bad communication tool.

[Twalli]

If she's my daughter and married, or my sister, or my cousin (martied), or a friend, or... well as log if other situations. If we've been having sex or she's my unmarried and young daughter, that's a bad idea.

[Abbycado]

Seems like way too big of a life event to do in text.

[BarryLiverstone]

For sure. Even if she’s not able to see him irl there are better wars to communicate than text

[In_Trance]

If the roles were reversed would it be okay to do this?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I do. It's even more cowardly than breaking up through text.

[Apple1996]

No I did that with 2 of my pregnancies

[seeyounexttuesday]

Yeah. That’s pretty tacky

[AGAM1]

Yes definitely

[jahaims]

Wrong way to do it

[noohair]

Is he the father?