Are there more pros or cons to having kids?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[Kaneki05]

No reasonable person can say objectively it's a pro. It's objectively a con. Subjectively someone may think it is worth it, that's called feelings though not a cold calculated response.

By metric of objectivity you are giving yourself something that takes most of your money, money is an objective need in a capatlism society. You are also taking more stress, stress is proven to have harmful effects on our body and mind.

[CheeseMonster]

It depends on your situation and what you see as pros and cons.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and for u?

[CheeseMonster]

The cons far outweigh the pros of having a child for me.

[Apple1996]

Depends on the person like for me I always wanted kids and to devote my life to raising them so i mostly see pros. For some people they might have other goals in life so having kids might get in the way of those goals

[Anonymous]

Depends on the genetic make-up. Some people should not procreate.

[Anonymous]

pros - keeps the species alive, keeps your legacy alive

cons - none unless you wish to remain irresponsible and immature forever

[chocolatetwopointo]

so its irresponsible and immature not to want kids?

[Opinion Owner]

people who don't want kids claim they don't want the responsibility of raising them hence irresponsibility and many of them live a lifestyle where they are the children of the family even when they're grown adults

you got 40+ year old childless men playing video games all day in the basement and 40+ year old childless women partying hedonistically like high schoolers. often these individuals don't belong to any community with no leadership qualities to be deemed mature or responsible

[chocolatetwopointo]

or they’re js having fun with the freedom they have? and how do u know they dont have jobs?

[Opinion Owner]

sure, you can call it "fun". not having responsibility is definitely "fun"

[chocolatetwopointo]

they do have a job tho most of the time💀 thats a responsebility. not everyone wants to be miserable like u lmao.

[Opinion Owner]

miserable? lol

listen sweetie. you're more miserable than anyone on this site with your constant questions

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao how am i miserable for having questions? tell me im miserable again when u have to change disgusting diapers and have to wake up every hour to stop a crying baby.

[Opinion Owner]

your post history (especially your questions) shows you're miserable. fearing men, playing the victim, believing pro-lifers are out to get you, getting upset when someone proves you wrong etc.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is that miserable? most people fear men. how am i playing the victim? never said they’re out to get me. i dont get upset when somebody proves me wrong. js debunked all of ur points, what now?

[Opinion Owner]

debunked all my points? is this what you call debunking?

[chocolatetwopointo]

mostly js answered and proved u wrong

[exitseven]

Hopefully they will pick out a good nursing home for me.

[DrPepper12]

CONThey're fucking expensive. Like REALLY expensive!!

[BCRanger10]

Objectively more pros.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[Kelly6]

@chocolatetwopointo depends on parents

[chocolatetwopointo]

and for u?

[Kelly6]

@chocolatetwopointo
For me it’s pro

[Sinthia99]

This is totally dependent on the person.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and for u?

[Sinthia99]

I think one day I will want them.