I am a transgender woman. And men who are transphobic write me mp, does that surprise you?

[Anonymous]

Some men told me they hated trans women, claiming to be macho, manly, etc.

Yet, they privately messaged me to say they were attracted to me.

I’m not saying it happened thousands of times, but it did happen a few times.

[Miristheiss]

You've classified people as trans "phobic".

What does that mean?

I would classify myself as a pretty common sense person. I live in reality.

That means I recognize you are a man who chooses to live their life as if they are a woman. You wish you were a woman and you feel you'd be happier as a woman and it is your "true self". There for you've changed your name to a woman's name, you dress as a woman and you may be having surgeries and take hormones to look as womanly as you possibly can. You are free to do you.

I would have never dated you or married you. I don't think you have any business on a girl's only sports team or changing clothes in their locker rooms. Outside of that you are free to do whatever you want.

If you consider that common sense reality transphobic then you are nuts.

What does trans "phobic" mean?

[Asker]

A transphobic person is a person who wants to hit, humiliate, and deprive a trans person of their rights as a citizen.

But that's not my question

[Miristheiss]

Yes, hitting them is wrong.
What rights in the USA does a trans person not have? I hear "trans rights" all the time. Those words are pretty meaningless because as a U. S. citizen you have ALL of the same rights anyone else has. What rights are you saying a trans person does not have?

[Asker]

I'm not American. And I said those who want to deprive us of our rights as citizens, note that I did not say trans rights, so my answer was nuanced.

[Miristheiss]

In the country you live what rights do you not have that other citizens have or what rights do you hear them saying they want to TAKW AWAY?

[Asker]

I didn't say that my country wanted to take away my rights as a citizen, but I do say that a transphobic person is what they want. But honestly, my question doesn't concern this subject.

[jshm2]

Well... you are a man who thinks he's a woman, but are expecting everyone else to subvert their values for you.

They just want to know why you think you're special enough for them to do that. Instead of taking yourself into the nearest psych ward.

[Anonymous]

Men are pigs all men are! If it even looks like a girl they get thirsty! Blank girls profile... Thirsty messages instantly! 🤣

Being lesbian constant 3some requests! Like the idea is I don't like any men. Why would I ever want sex... Cause porn says so!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Shock of shocks, the call always comes from inside the house lol

[ForevrLonely29]

You do you. Don't expect anyone to support your lifestyle. Personally, trannies are gross and have issues.

[Anonymous]

I guess writing an honest answer isn't allowed to questions like this but no it doesn't surprise me because I think there are mental issues involved on both sides of this equation so abnormal behavior is expected.

[andreasderjuengere]

Well - emmm - yes.

You get some attention.

Isn't that what you seek?

[princeofromance]

You must be yourself. Who cares what others think of you. All that matters is that you completely and honest love yourself.

[Ifdyourmom]

So you're saying it's as if they're ashamed to be what they really are, for fear of judgment, while systematically judging, at the same time

[seeyounexttuesday]

They’re just gay.