What would you do if someone leaked your nudes?

[worldscolide]

With the destiny situation, and if you don't know about it, do some googling. I feel the need to reiterate, regardless of gender you cannot trust anyone with those kinds of photos. Man or woman, if the person you're talking to asks for them you're better off blocking them.

As a cyber security expert, even if someone doesn't leak your photos, you can always be hacked. The risk to your security is just not worth the risk of sending them to anyone. I'm not fear mongering when I say this.

In the destiny situation he claims to have been hacked, but his own conversations with others he admits to sharing with out permission. In any case again for your own safety and privacy, regardless of gender, it's just not worth it.

[TrueConfection]

I’m too paranoid to let anyone take nude photos of me, plus I’ve always been camera shy. I’ll never have this concern.

However… I am in my last year of being in my 40s (I can’t even say what number comes next 😳). I kind of wish I had some nude photos of myself in my 20s. If I did, I probably wouldn’t mind those getting leaked. 😇

[worldscolide]

I can completely understand where you're coming from. On that same token I have seen women in thier 40's and 50's that are plenty hot.

[ProbablyClueless]

I... don't think I'd particularly care. I don't think anyone cares about nudes, these days. Especially with all the women posting their nudes up on OF and stuff. And honestly, especially in that Destiny situation; she was public figure having sex with another public figure who is known for his debauchery. Not to victim blame but I feel like she had to know on some level that this was a possibility when she consented to the recording being made.

Women still freak out about it because I guess they think people are still shocked by it... I just don't think anyone cares anymore.

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't think I would care that much lol

I've accidentally leaked my own and was slightly horrified, but that was mostly because family possibly saw. I laughed it off soon after

[dustybiker2]

You are still mortified.

[sirderpsalot123]

@dustybiker2 it wasn't my proudest moment but shit happens lol

[dustybiker2]

@sirderpsalot123 Poor you. What can you do?

[DishLady]

If someone leaked my one nude pic ever -- the baby bathtub "cheesecake" pic my folks took of me when I was maybe 4 or 6 months old -- I'd probably just sigh shake my head. Parents do the stupidest things sometimes.

Anyone dumb enough to take adult nude pics in the age of AI and the Cloud is simply an idiot.

[Agape93]

Be surprised because I've never taken nudes. But even if I had, people are getting sued or shot

[worldscolide]

Fuck yes!!

[CheeseMonster]

I guess I'd have to secure evidence, file a report, and press charges. That would suck...

[Alex-Snow]

It would piss me off a bit but there is not much that can be done once they hit the internet

[dustybiker2]

What can you do? They would be out there.

[worldscolide]

There are legal things. In the states it's classed as revenge porn, and a felony. Additionally, you can choose not to share them. And no I am absolutely not victim blaming. I'm just suggesting that no one trust anyone with stuff like that.

[dustybiker2]

I have a legal issue. Seven dif law firms are willing to help for a $45,000 retainer...

[dustybiker2]

But I agree with you. Trust.. tricky beast.

[worldscolide]

Exactly. I've been with my wife for 12 years, and I definitely don't have any nudes of her. It's not a trust thing, I'm freaking paranoid as hell. I don't want even the slight chance of her nudes getting hacked or anything.

[dustybiker2]

Smart man

[jamesgoldman]

I've never taken one because of these risks

[worldscolide]

Same, and I have refused to receive them in the past from my wife and prior to marriage, women I had dated.

[jamesgoldman]

Same here

[midnightmoon05]

I have no nudes … so no worries.

[Miristheiss]

I have no nudes to leak.

[Kelly6]

@worldscolide won't mind at all

[worldscolide]

Nothing wrong with that