How would you feel if the person you were in a relationship with showed their friends your nudes?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend told me he showed his friends pictures of me and I don’t know how to feel. I don’t really like the idea of it at all and feel like I should’ve been kept for only his eyes. Am I over exaggerating or would you find it a red flag?

[God_of_Thunder]

My ex not only shared pictures with one of her friends, but apparently discussed me, and our sex life, in great detail.

I was conflicted about it. I wasn't upset, per se; as far as I know, everything she said was flattering, but I was a little uncomfortable about it.

I didn't mind her bragging about me, but at the same time, I would NEVER discuss our sexuality with my friends, and would absolutely never share her pictures. I also know that she would have been pissed if I ever did so.

So, for me, it just felt like, not only a double standard, but that she did not have my consent to share those things with her friend.

[Billlewis]

Quite a few of the women I've served have shared a good laugh with their girlfriends, and occasionally their boyfriends, at how tiny my little piglet penis is, but I knew they were going to do that anyway, and I loved it, although it was very embarrassing... lol

[Sirenboobzilla]

If they're meant to be private, absolutely.

I've had professional nude photos taken from before I got with my boyfriend. Those I'm relatively ok with him showing off a bit. But anything I take that's explicit and clearly meant just for him, absolutely not!

[Fireguy17]

Red flag.
And one more really good reason never to send out nude pictures.
Remember just like this example once they are out there there, there is nothing you can do about it.
Think about this, if he is showing them around now, what will he do with them if/when you break up with him?

[slatyb]

That's a HUGE RED FLAG. He absolutely should have asked your permission. His actions say that he considers you to be a thing he has, not another person.

[XXblack88]

If a boyfriend did that my trust for him would be broken. pics like that are only for the two of you.

[cootjuhh]

big red flag. you show them to him in trust. he brokes trust so bad

[KrakenAttackin]

How many nudes have you already posted online?

[Asker]

I’ve never sent any besides the ones I’ve sent to him. I don’t like anyone but the person I’m with seeing me like that

[KrakenAttackin]

Sending nudes is always a stupid thing to do. After you two break up your nudes will likely circulate the Internet forever.

[Asker]

I doubt it

[Anonymous]

Furious

[TiaNour]

Angry