How would you feel if the person you were dating went on a vacation with their ex and child/children?

[Justneedtokno]

[AviatorTom]

It depends. If it's a family-reunion type vacation, I might be okay with it... it's good that the kids get to see that their mom and dad don't hate each other; separate rooms for mom and dad, or course. If it's a normal vacation where they sahe a room/bed, I'd be pretty disappointed... and upset.

[Justneedtokno]

I think it’s hopeful think. There are so many grey areas in that situation

[DizzyDesii]

But if they do the separate rooms wouldn't it make since to bring their new partners and show the kids that they can all get along for the sake of the kids?

[Justneedtokno]

@DizzyDesii It would that why it just doesn’t seem right

[HighValue]

If they had any contact with an ex I would end the relationship already.

[DizzyDesii]

Im not staying in a relationship with anybody who still hangs out with their ex

[hahahmm]

Guarantee you that would end up being the ex sharing a bed with your SO. I'd tell them: you go & your dumped.

[Justneedtokno]

You don’t know me at all. I don’t have any children and I don’t talk to my ex.

[hahahmm]

No man on earth will believe that you aren't doing something shady in that situation. Even the guys who THINK they trust you will change their mind later when they think about it. So if you think it's worth risking your new relationship just to make your ex feel good, go for it. You're no different than women who flirt with dudes while claiming it's harmless. Well it is UNTIL it isn't.

[Justneedtokno]

What are you talking about? I just said that I don’t have any children and I don’t talk to my ex How is that shady? I go to work come home and hang out with family like I really don’t do anything. No point in trying to convince you because you don’t understand.

[hahahmm]

I responded to your post and then you reacted as if I was talking about you personally so then, naturally, it sounded like it is about you. Dunno why you reacted that way

[Justneedtokno]

Because you didn’t specifically say the person in this situation plus I’m probably saw you see you coming after me about everything else that it probably went into this

[Agape93]

Wonder when she had a kid

[msc545]

I would feel uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

That's fucked up.

[moonpie89]

Fine with that actually.

[moonpie89]

Mind you I've never date a man with a child and I probably won't ever. Still though I don't think I'd mind

[Z1pTD]

If it was my parters kid than yes

[eagle1951]

they would be and Exs themself

[Fleet7635]

I’d have a new ex