Why is it so hard for a certain subset of society to accept that women and men are different, and being different is a very good thing?

This is something i see a lot from certain kinds of people, (mostly the activist type) they insist that men and women are exactly the same, even in brain function they are chemically identical some how, Which we know as bullshit. I would even move that we are intended to be different, that we are meant to be complimentary.

According to research, while individual variations exist, female babies tend to focus more on social cues and facial expressions, often displaying greater sensitivity to human voices and emotional responses, while male babies may show a stronger inclination towards physical exploration and gross motor skills, potentially developing them slightly faster than girls

Key points about potential differences in focus between male and female babies:
Social Interaction:
Female babies may be more drawn to faces and voices, exhibiting a stronger response to other people's emotions, while male babies might show less focus on social cues initially.

Motor Skills:
Studies suggest that boys may develop gross motor skills like crawling and walking slightly earlier than girls, while girls may excel in fine motor skills like grasping and manipulating objects.

Language Development:
Some research indicates that girls may show earlier verbal development and larger vocabularies compared to boys.

Brain Development:
While research is ongoing, studies suggest potential differences in brain structure and connectivity between genders, which may contribute to observed behavioral variations

But a certain subset of humanity scream bigotry and hate speech when you point these things out.

I am glad men and women are so different, And i feel like we should fit together because of those differences.

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A link to some of the research i skimmed

www.zerotothree.org/.../
Why is it so hard for a certain subset of society to accept that women and men are different, and being different is a very good thing?
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