Why do men and women no longer accept each other for what they are and therefore promote the need to change everything about them?

[Dan_5001]

[Enlightenme21]

They don't I have noticed a pattern lately that people are actually replacing partners and cheating over actually forcing change.

Also what your thinking of is not wanting to force change of who a person is. People wanted their partners to grow out of unhealthy behaviors and patterns not change who they are.

There's a difference. Thats essential for relationship growth and when things wouldn't change people would be told that they should stick around for the hard times to reach the better days when really it was simply a unpresent partner who was uncommitted to thier relationship.

[Anonymous]

First, your question dishonest and meant to play some egalitarian game.

Men still accept women for what they are. In fact, a lot of men even go along with it and support it. So many girls are thots with OF, twitch streamers, lingerie models, instathot, and attention whores. And yet, these girls have no problem in getting men. In fact, men still uphold to traditional values and are expected to do most of the work in romantic relationships. It is women who have changed and fucked everything up. Women have abandon their traditional gender roles, have been corrupted by feminism and social media and now have delusions on the type of men they can get. A lot of girls who are 5/10 and up think they deserve an 8/10 boyfriend/Husband.

[asphaltrhymes]

It's a modern world, what else can I or any of us say or add, here of GAG? 🌎 🌍

[Thatpearl26]

I don’t know and I wish that people wouldn’t do this. We should accept people by who they are and not try to change them. I’ve seen so many videos of couples and the women in the relationship jokes a lot about how “I trained him to well”. Whenever I hear that it just shocks me because why won’t you accept your boyfriend/husband by who he is instead of molding him to fit your dream guy.

[rachel776]

[KingslayerC]

I don't think people have ever really accepted each other. And people have always wanted the best that they can get. You probably are just noticing it more as you experience more adulthood.

[DizzyDesii]

If i dont accept someone as they are, i just won't date them. I learned long before the pandemic that you can't change a person. A person sure as heck can't change me

[lorenzomichael]

I don't think we want to change each other. However I do believe we each want certain things to stop. Thats how a relationship grows. Just the why girls put away dolls and boys put away there action figures.

[Nikki1989]

But most don't. Just because a few internet trolls say it is so, doesn't make it true.

[slatyb]

No longer? That has always been the case in many partnerships. It's lose-lose.

[Lauliss]

Because no one is traditional anymore and believes in horrible ideologies who promote anti-woman or anti-man rhetorics.

[mommymommymommy]

When has it ever been that way, lmao

[boggboss]

How so?