What does it mean if people you find unattractive physically are also rude to you consistently?

[Babygirl_S]

It’s a pattern I’ve seen

[Grond21]

If those are the only two things that are consistent, I suspect it means that you have a different standard for behavior such that when someone treats you a certain way you perceive it as rude depending on how attractive they are. So if a guy approaches you ask you out, it's rude if he's unattractive but appreciated if he's attractive. If that is not the case, then there must be other factors at play you haven't mentioned

[OneViewpoint]

Maybe they find you even uglier than themselves and you're simply not very self aware.

[Booboolove69]

Why is that combination so common?
It is absolutely true !!!
Every guy I’ve known that is unattractive have the biggest attitude problem… they are so rude !!
But the good looking guys have been so sweet
Why?

[IslaTheWitch]

if they are rude and talking to them doesn't help, I keep them at a distance or cut off

their appearance doesn't matter

[Dargil]

Reactions to them create a hostile demeanor.

[Dongie]

There feelings must be hurt.

[Babygirl_S]

I try to interact with an open heart but they reveal their insecurities

[Dongie]

If you were very ugly, perhaps you'd not feel very sociable either. 😪

[Jerre]

I don’t associate with rude people