If your someone that's considered "unattractive" do people actively ignore you or do they actively give you unwanted attention?

[Anonymous]

For the majority of my life I've always saw myself as "unattractive" & yet many people have tried to get my attention, reaction, or constantly bother me to acknowledge them

I've never been asked to hang out or what not but I have a huge history of people constantly trying to get me to either react to their presence or to say something back

I'm a loner on top of that & don't smile much either nor try

[Nikki1989]

Who is to say someone is unattractive?

[Asker]

But speaking from my own experiences

Are those signs I'm just being messed with?

[Asker]

So that's a yes

[HateyouxD]

Welcome to being a loner

[Asker]

You're one yourself?

[HateyouxD]

Yes.

[Asker]

You chose to be one?

[HateyouxD]

Yes and no
I'd like the friends but people are just too weird

[Asker]

I've always been curious though

Woman always either seem to want to be very aggressive with me... as in constantly provoking me to react to everything they say & do... while smirking

Or get very scared/nervous if I'm just "there"

[HateyouxD]

They night be attracted to you or want to be friends. Some might even view you as comoetition?

[Asker]

You think so?

You're the only person to help me thus far

[HateyouxD]

Because I am the same as you... it's crazy

[Asker]

Who do you think the woman likes more

The man she purposely lowered her head while talking to him?

Or the man she tends to get scared/nervous around but avoid eye contact by turning her head sideways if he/her make eye contact

[HateyouxD]

Those are both signs of a nervous girl/ a girl liking a guy so it's hard to say